Something's going on?

[sonicsurfer]

There's this cute girl I've known for 2 months:) (seen her 3 times but we have never spoken personally, only chatted on the irc)......... However, I've asked her out for a couple of times and she just can't make it. This time round, she suggested that she ask me out instead when she and her friends can actually make it. What does this mean at all? Is it possible that this relationship can be continued? I have never asked her if she likes me, it would sounds so awkward and feels too. Do you think I should ask her before we go out or after?

[Kaisharga]

I'd say during.

Stepping back, it seems (to me, at least) odd that she's wanting to schedule time for dating when her friends are available...I wonder if she's planning a party instead of a date o_0

Of course, that may be the norm where you are, but it just seems kinda weird...otherwise, everything seems normal. People are busy anymore, and conflicts happen. You two may have just been unlucky so far. Letting her call the meeting time may help if she's the busier of the two of you. Just make sure she keeps that promise ;)

--Kaisharga

[sonicsurfer]

I'm dying to know if she really likes me, but how can I actually ask without sounding like I want her so badly that she cannot belong to anyone else? I really hope to know this and please do help me, otherwise I might not know when I can ever get more sleep:bawling: . If there is anyway that she has already given signs, what would they be, since they weren't at all obvious, if not never given at all:(

[RosaMystica7]

hmm... what would i do to a guy if he had asked me out a few times and i honestly couldn't make it...

i would try to hang out with him more when we do see each other. i would stand closer to him. if i'm talking to my friends, i'd look at him while i'm talking to them. i'd poke him. i always poke and tickle guys i like. i'd give him a hug hello or good bye.. or both depending on how huggable he is. things like that.

does she smile a lot around you? you can tell a smile is genuine if there's a crease by the corner of her eye when she smiles.

hope that helps a little. :)