Most important

[Byron]

I think communication is the most important building block in a relationship. Spending time on quality communication will definately improve your relationship.

[sharon]

You are right, Byron.
In my opinoin, there are more factors. Not only communication is important, but also, love, trust and respect.

My fiancee and i, do have quarrels, but once we talk things out, we will be fine.

I think mis-communications between couples are rather common, and this takes years and years to really communicate well.

But then again, i think mis-communication aren't that bad, as it brings couples much closer together after an agrument.

Cheers!

[sweetdede4u]

In my relationship there is the love and trust but he is so self absorb. i have to exam him or look very closely to see if he is happy today or is this another day of isolation. I am always asking is everything okay are you alright.Most of the time he is unresponsive. Wow! What have i done? I am miserable.

[jklddancer]

Dear all~
Why do you or should I we? Why do we always assume that we are in love every time there is a feeling about someone? THere several levels of love, yes. But there is a fine line between love and being in love. We were put here to love and that we do, I love everyone in my life. But when your in love with somone it's something you feel deep down in the heart of your soul. There is something diffrent about that one person that seperates them form all with whome you love. It's ok to love and dont be afraid of it cause it's alwasy going to be in your life but dont mistake it for something it's not. I know it's hard when someone you love ends up not being someone your in love with.
Just remember to be true to yourself and know that you are able to love, the best gift ever given to us. But PLEASE please remember that love is a sacred thing and is not a game of any kind. we are real people with real feelings. and know one desevers to be used or to be seconed best. I hope you all find that someone that makes everything beautiful in your life even more beautiful. And dont let go of what you hold true. as a wise man once said, if you love someonone it's not that you cant live with them it's that you cant live without them.
JKLD:)