in need of help

[xjuan9]

ok its like this
i like a girl which i just met
ihaven't been seeing her for bout a month
i want to call her out or telephone her more often but it makes me look very desperate
i think she likes me too cause she has been giving me hints
what should i do?

[Kaisharga]

How often is 'more often?'

If you're thinking that calling once every couple of weeks is too much, then get over it and call her. The line is drawn at approximately one call every week-and-a-half, or maybe every two weeks. After that it depends on the two of you, and how the calls go each time. And, if she seems to like you too, then it's more likely to be a relief to her to have you call than an annoyance. So go for it.

--Kaisharga

[Pandora1980]

If she's giving you hints- that probably means that calls from you are more than welcome. It probably means that when you call her, what you can't see is her face lighting up when she hears your voice.

My opinion- screw worrying about calling her too much and ask her out.

It doesn't look desperate- at worst- she'll be flattered and you'll know. But you never know until you try.