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TheRealDeal
11-11-2001, 03:49 PM
I met this girl at school recently. I really like her and I've really gotten to know her well. My problem is that I've been getting mixed signals from her. I mean we've gone out once, but I don't even know if she considers it a date . The mixed signals are that she calls me a good friend, but she's extremely flirty. She said that she doesn't want to start any long relationships, but that may just be to see if I keep on pursuing. I mean she'll find some reason to tickle me or touch me. I mean when we walk together, she'll get really close and sort of rub up next to me. Not that I mind . How do I go about this situation? I really want to tell her that I want to be more than just her friend. I'm sure how and when. Any advice? I mean it's pretty obvious we're clicking. I see her friends and people pulling her aside to ask her what's up between us and the same with me.

LoveChild84
11-11-2001, 05:18 PM
Does she act like this with just you?
Or with all her mates?

Because although it does sound that she likes you, she may just be like that with all her friends.

TheRealDeal
11-11-2001, 08:40 PM
It's just me that it's like this. If it was like that around everyone else, I wouldn't have this dilemma. Which is a good thing:D

LoveChild84
11-12-2001, 06:08 AM
Well, I think ur in there then. Why dont u just talk to her.
Get her alone and talk. In many ways this can be better because if u try and mnake a move and get the knock back, it would be harder to carry on with your original relationship.

Good luck. (but from what u said, u dont really need it)