Mixed Signals

[TheRealDeal]

I met this girl at school recently. I really like her and I've really gotten to know her well. My problem is that I've been getting mixed signals from her. I mean we've gone out once, but I don't even know if she considers it a date:confused: . The mixed signals are that she calls me a good friend, but she's extremely flirty. She said that she doesn't want to start any long relationships, but that may just be to see if I keep on pursuing. I mean she'll find some reason to tickle me or touch me. I mean when we walk together, she'll get really close and sort of rub up next to me. Not that I mind:devil: . How do I go about this situation? I really want to tell her that I want to be more than just her friend. I'm sure how and when. Any advice? I mean it's pretty obvious we're clicking. I see her friends and people pulling her aside to ask her what's up between us and the same with me.

[shelle]

If she says she doesn't want a long term relationship.......leave it at that. Have fun with her, flirt with her, but get the "relationship" idea out of your head. Who knows, maybe if you get rid of that friction, she'll really fall for you. Flirt around with other girls too and see how she reacts. Have fun.

Shelle