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LoveChild84
11-09-2001, 06:35 PM
Hi people, this is a hard thing to explain, but i'd be really greatful if you could read it and give me your input.

Well, I met this girl, Tasha on 27th October . That Saturday I just tried to eye her up to let her know I was interested.

The next Saturday (3rd November) I spotted her and about half way through the night she just comes up to me, takes me by the hand into the corridoor and starts neckin for me. Well, she gives me her phone number, puts it into my mobile herself and then walkes off. But then she got in a state and told me to delete her phone number. So I went to delete the phone number, but being drunk I ended up deleting the phone number next to hers but not hers. I didnt realise this fact until two days later. I also found out from my mates that she necked for two other men that night.

Anyway, I text her, explained why i still had her number and asked her what goin on. Yoo know, whether she is really interested or whether it was just the drink. She didnt reply, so i sent e text sayin that im taking this as she isnt interested and that i will delete her number. Minutes after this i started recieving texts from her. Anyway, we aranged to meet on the Tuesday night.

On Tuesday (6th November) we met up for an hour (she brought a friend with her) and she didnt talk much. I ended up talking to her friend more than her. Later in the night she text me and says that she does like me and that would i like to come for a drink with her on Thursday.

On Thursday (8th November - Today) she said she would meet me at 9 in a club in town. Anyway, i gets there at 9, and shes no-where to be seen. She eventualy turns up at 9:40, we got on well. We where kissin for a while and had a dance, it was really good. But then she started to flirt & dance with other guys, but she'd keep coming back to me. But as you can imagine this did piss me off. So I started to dance with this fit blond girls with huge tits just to piss her off/get my own back. She dissapeared for an hour or so in the club, i couldnt see her anywhere. When she turned back up, she didnt really say anythin much, but we started dancin again and she kissed me on the cheek and that while we where dancin, and i did the same back. now, in that time she went missing i dont know if she necked for anyone else!?

At the end of the night I walked her home and it was really late so she said i could sleep at her place. This was completely innocent, i was gonna sleep on the floor/couch or somethin. On the way back she had a go at me for dancin with this other girl, and i said what wrong with that if she was dancin with other lads. She said she was just being friendly, thats the way she is, but i wasnt convinced. Anyway, we get back to her place, she lives in student accomodation which has 24hr security. The security guard wouldnt let her take me in, so i said i would sleep in the lobby (sad i know, but i was in no state to walk home!) and for her to go to bed. She said she'd stay in the lobby with me, and she did from 3:30am till about 7:45am. We just talked and didnt sleep. I left at 8am and went straight to college, and she went to college too. We go to different colleges so we didnt see each other.

Later on I text her askin how her head was etc, and if she'd wanna come to my place for a few hours in the nite to hang out. She replied saying her head was fine, and that she hoped my head was fine too etc, but she didnt mention about comin over to mine... So i didnt wanna push it and just left it. And this is where i'm upto now. We are meant to go out this Saturday night, but i dont know if its worth it or whether shes just leadin me on. Cuz she keeps goin hot & cold on me?!

What do u guys think... Does she really like me?
Is their any point in continuing?!

ANY HELP/ADVICE would be GREATLY appreciated.
Thanks in advance.

beltfed
11-09-2001, 06:45 PM
yea, well. um. yea. well. it kinda sounds like either she has split personalities or she's just fooling around with you. if i were you, i'd give her the BOOT.
you say you go to college? well, you'll be able to find someone else easily.

Natalie1727
11-10-2001, 04:44 AM
I agree with the other person. You do not need that. Speaking as a woman, I would never act like that. I know you probably like you, but it sounds to me like she is messing with you. She wants you for herself, meaning she doesn't want you to have other people, but she wants to have other people herself. Sounds like a possessive or psychotic chika if you ask me. I know that may sound harsh, but I am just going off what you told me.

LoveChild84
11-10-2001, 02:22 PM
Well, I'm goin out with her tonight... I'll see how things go.
I will post what happens and you can give me your final decisions.

Thanks for the help guys, but KEEP IT COMIN!

shelle
11-10-2001, 09:36 PM
She's yanking your chain.
Been there, done that. (long time ago) All women do that once in their lives just to prove they can. She needs a quick check on her ego. You could be just the one to give it to her and who knows....maybe then she will settle herself on you.
Drop her hard and fast, cease all communication.
Then see what happens.

LoveChild84
11-11-2001, 02:23 PM
Well, as i said. I went out with her on Saturday.

At first things where goin well. But then she went cold on me...
No huggin, no kissin, ALL!

I was VERY VERY VERY pissed off. She must have noticed this, and said to me; "I'll give ya a kiss, depends on how well u behave".
I told her to off now, cuz i didnt want one. Then she said she'd walk off and leave me. So i told her to go ahead.

She went half way accross the dance floor, then came back sayin she was messin. So i said "Am I gettin a kiss then", she replied "no".

So I told her i was gonna walk, AND DID!
It was the best thing I've done in ages, it felt great just leavin her there after all the shit she's done to me.

Anyway, after that, the night went great...
I kopped off with 2 other girls and she wouldnt saty away from me. She kept coming back over 2 me, or lookin at me.

That night went with one hell of a band... BEST NIGHT IN AGES!

:) :) :) :) :)

Thanks for all the advice guys. Much appreciated.

Natalie1727
11-11-2001, 06:47 PM
I am glad you had a good night. I think the girl is kinda schizo. To know if she really likes you or not, I would suggest just doing your own thing, being with other people etc, and if she really wants ya, time will tell. She will come back is she wants ya. I think the more important question you should be asking yourself is, do you REALLY want her? Is she someone you REALLY want to be with? I would think twice about it. Anyway, hope all goes well. Good lucks
- Natalie

TiggerLover
11-11-2001, 10:51 PM
I think you did the right thing. It sounded to me like she was playing with your head to see how far she can go. For one, any girl that truly likes you isn't going to play head games like that. I know for myself, being 25 I don't play games, they're childish and pointless. You get no where with them. Let her know that you aren't going to put up with that nonsense. There are plenty other girls out there that won't mess with your mind. Have lots of fun and good luck in school.:D

LoveChild84
11-12-2001, 06:04 AM
Thanx guys.
Even if she does decide she likes me and comes back over time, i doubt anythin will happen.
Shes messed me about to much and im beyond caring for her in that way.

LoveChild84
11-13-2001, 05:59 PM
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TASHA UPDATE
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Well, as you know, after i walked away and left her on Saturday nite i aint heard no more. UNTIL TODAY!

I've had like lots of calls sayin shes sorry if she upset me/mess me about cuz she didnt mean to. Then she goes on to ask me if i wanted to go to hers to have a drink. I declined, and she asked me another 2 times. I was dying to go down, but i decided to play it cool and let her sweat a bit while i decide what to do.

What do u guys rekon?
Think i should give her another go? Or leave it cuz of the way she messed me about?!

HELP! IM IN ANOTHER MUDDLE!

beltfed
11-14-2001, 07:19 PM
Leave the cat outside, my friend. She wants a boyTOY, not a boyfriend.

Kaisharga
11-14-2001, 08:39 PM
Thanx guys.
Even if she does decide she likes me and comes back over time, i doubt anythin will happen.
Shes messed me about to much and im beyond caring for her in that way.


So....what's changed?

--Kaisharga

LoveChild84
11-15-2001, 05:47 AM
Nothings changed on my part, i was just seein if i cud get any more input. Thanks for remindin me about that though.

Angeleyes
11-15-2001, 06:33 PM
I think because you have now rejected her she finds this an irresistible challenge. I too think she a bit of a schizophrenic and she’s just stringing you along. Erase her number from your mobile quick and cease all communication with her.

RosaMystica7
11-15-2001, 09:57 PM
You know what beltfed said about her wanting you as a boytoy? She doesn't just want a toy, she wants a yo-yo. Buy her a gift certificate to the cheapest toy shop in town and tell her to but out of your life. DON'T fall for someone who only wants you when it's convienient for them. I don't know you very well but I still think you deserve better than that.

LoveChild84
11-16-2001, 05:36 AM
Its sorted now anyway..... their will b no more about this ;)
I went out last nite, cuz i usually go out Thursdays & Saturdays... and i met her.. We chatted danced, but we did our own things.. It was good, we just went back every now & then and talked. So i think its safe to say that we're just m8's and that we're gettin along fine now. Which is nice.