head games?

[beltfed]

for us guys- When your flirting with someone, what are usually the most effective head games you play?

for the girls- what kind of head games do you play with guys?

[Chance]

I truly try to avoid playing head games. I dislike them immensely.

[crazy4boyz]

I dont like head games either. There confusing for both you and him.

Over and out :angel6: Crazy4boyz

[BaSweetie]

Head Games are evil.....but can be useful!
I try to aviod them but if someone starts them with me, they deserve a taste of their own medicine.

[LoveChild84]

Yeah avoid them!
Head games are very nasty. I've just left a girl cuz she kept with the head games and i couldnt handle it any more.

Steer well clear of them, and anyone who uses them. :eek:

[Pandora1980]

Hello? Are you retarded?
Who likes head games? Have you ever heard the phrase, "Yeah, I like her, she's cute and all, she just doesn't play enough games".

Be direct, don't play games, plus if you start getting more serious- how are you going to communicate, hen you just play games?

[Neo]

Hey Pandora1980, I don't mean to be rude. But I feel that beltfed only post a topic as a discussion. It's not nice of you to call anyone retarded. :(

[Fireangel]

Mind games make people obsessed. That's a fact, trust me.

[Pandora1980]

Thinking mind games makes one obsessed- means you're probably the one doing the obsessing...
Ok- mind games- I'm pretty sure that's just pretending you have something better to do than devote your life to this person you met.
The thing is - the pretending that's true is just retarded. Lame, lame, lame for both parties.

Actually having something better to do- like taking care of your own needs- prefectly fine- great in fact!!

If this is the case - then yes, it could work- this person wants your attention- knows you're great because you're doing lots of great things- that does make you more attractive- actually having your own life.

Just don't make it a game- a healthy relationship is not playing head games or being obsessed with someone or spending every waking minute with them.
Have your own life and make it a great one- one you can share with this person.

[Neo]

Hi Pandora1980,

"a healthy relationship is not playing head games or being obsessed with someone or spending every waking minute with them. Have your own life and make it a great one- one you can share with this person."

These are wise words. .....so beautifully expressed.

I agree with you.