trapped in a puzzle...

[beltfed]

This is really getting on my nerves. There's this girl i've kinda known for a while and we do like each other. I wanna ask her out, but we don't have any classes together. whenever I DO see her, she's always crowded around by her little goonies (also the biggest gossip queens i've ever seen!). I dont really like to go through friends. this is hard! any input?

[Angeleyes]

How about sending her a email or text message to meet up with you somewhere (without the gossips;) ) tagging along, and as you say you've known her a while I assuming she trusts you enough to be alone with you, so ask her to go to the cinema or cafe or something like that.

Hope this helps you a little with your dilemma.

Good luck Beltfed

Will keep my fingers crossed;) :angel:

[Pandora1980]

You really wanna go out with some girl who is surrounded by gossip queens at all times?

Anyway- if for some reason you said yes... You said you kinda know her- and she's always with the retards- I mean gossip queens- ok- they're ok to interrupt- they're saying nothing worthwhile.
So while she's with her little friends- say "hey (insert name), can I talk to you later, I need to ask you something" When she says ok, arrange a time and place to meet.

In that scenario- you haven't said enough to start a giggle-fest after you walk away, and you've arranged a time to meet her alone to ask her out. At this point- if she brings one of her friends- you have a right to ask her to ask her friend to leave or ask the friend yourself.

Nw get up the nerves- ask the girl out- and don't come crying to me when her friends piss you off

Also- be aware that women talk to their friends about problems before they bring them to their boyfriend- be aware that this will be intensified (b/c of the people she hangs out with) and when you have a problem, they will know about it first it will be her opinion along with the advice of her friends

Anyway- I personally don't know what guys find appealing about those kinds of girls- but if it makes you happy- there's my advice

[beltfed]

actually, I know her enough to know shes not that type of girl, its just that for some sick, demented, disturbing, messed up, and just plain bad reason, she hangs out with those girls. Thanks for the advice though.