Flirting with my Romeo

[RomeoandJuliet]

If you compliment a man about his work, and he bows down his head, what is he thinking? Also if he is squirming around in his chair, and fixing his shirt? Also he laughs, when you tell him, you lost your train of thoughts? But if he does look away for a reason, while you are talking,he apologizes, and always returns your stares.
Does he have an interest, or just trying to be polite. Does he like you more than, he can say?

[Travolta]

hi Juliet,

If you compliment a man about his work, and he bows down his head = most likely humble but can't really judge based on this

squirming around in his chair, and fixing his shirt = sign of nervousness?

he laughs, when you tell him, you lost your train of thoughts = normal reaction

if he does look away for a reason, while you are talking,he apologizes, and always returns your stares = normal reaction too

Hard to say if he has an interest or not. Any other signs? :weyes:

[RomeoandJuliet]

Hi Travolta,

The only 1 sign I know that he is attracted to me, his eyes.
If we are in a crowded room, he will only make direct eye
contact with me. Or if he is passing by me, and other people
are next to me, he will make eye contact with me.
When I worked for the hospital, he would touch my right
hand, (quite a few times) when taking a food tray from my hand.

[Travolta]

According to what you have said, i think your Romeo is interested in you too.

[RomeoandJuliet]

Hi Byron,

Thanks for your reply, and I do believe, he is attracted
to me, as well.
People are telling me, he could be gay, and to leave him
alone. Hearing that really hurts me, so bad.
I believe, he really does have feelings for me, but is afraid
to show them. For several reasons, he could have been in a
relationship, and he got seriously hurt by it, or he may think, I
may not be attracted to him anymore, once he does get involved
with me. He may be afraid of getting emotionally involved, and
I could understand that. I am at an age, I wouldn't be playing
games with him. I love him too much to hurt him, in any way.

Thanks again for your reply
:)

[Byron]

Hi Juliet,

The above message was from Travolta not me.

Has cupid done his work already? I will tell him to bring more arrows and improve on his aiming. :)

Byron

[Ares]

I think he is attracted to you. Maybe he is too shy or he is waiting for the right time to tell you.

[RomeoandJuliet]

Hello Ares,

I know, he is shy. And I hope, he is waiting for the right
time, to let me know, his feelings for me. He does't tell
me to leave him alone, and he is interested in what I have
to tell him about myself
Right now, he does have alot of things going on, and I
guess, he does have to take care of them first.

Thanks for your reply

[smokzey]

this is a sad story.. how old are you anyways?

[JudyGarland]

Hello Smokzey,

I will be turning the big 40 years old in August, and at my age,
I don't have the option that I had at 20. Nobody would guess
that I am turning 40, they think I am alot younger.
The guy that I love, he is around my age, and would make a
good husband for someone. He has alot of respect, caring,
very intelligent, and talented. He has a sick mother in a nursing
home, and he is there to feed her everyday. I use to work there
and thats, how we meet. The way he took care of his mother, had
attracted me to him. Because I thought, he would make a very good
husband for someone.
He also reminds me of me, when I took care of my mother, while I
had my 2 kids to take care of. She was very ill for a long time, and
had heart attacks, cancer twice, diabetic, and had a tumor on her
spine which left her paralzed. I had to dress her wound on her back
from a bed sore from a hospital, who neglected to change her sheets.
I draw her insulin, give her a finger stick, pour her pills, cook her
meals, change her catheter, and help her get dressed. She did have
a nurse coming in, but not all the time. I have spent a good number
of years with her in the hospital, when she was operated on.
The last month of her life, she was on alot of morphine for pain, and
couldn't speak. If you touched her, her arms would move around.
Nothing comes easy for me, including romance.




:bawling:

[lipgirl]

Hello Judygarland,

It is very sad to read your message. I can feel the enptiness in your heart and tears flowing from your face.

But i just don't understand... if the man isn't showing his affection to you, why are you still showing affection to him? Alright, i know it needs time to fade, then why not start fading it this instance?

I am not anywhere near your age at all, in fact many many years younger, and perhaps you may think i am naive... maybe at times, it is good to be naive and think things more simply.

I am sure there are many better men around you who will love you immensely and dote on you like crazy.

Let time tell... and let time heal... Good luck!

[JudyGarland]

Hello Lipgirl,

It hard to explain, but I try to fight so hard, how I feel
about him. I do go out with other guys, but they don't
give me those butterfly feelings like he does.
I know, he does have feelings for me, but he can't
express them. He is very shy, and he has alot going
on right now. His eyes tell me everything that, he can't
say.
Maybe in time, I will meet Mr. Right.

Thanks for your reply