crazy4mrRight
11-05-2001, 03:54 AM
There is this one friend of mine (I'm a female), and he and I are very good friends. He doesn't have a g/f now bcuz his g/f just broke up with him. We are on such a level that we could be having a b/f g/f relationship but we are just really really good friends as of right now. He wants to have fun but doesn't want a relationship which is fine with me cause I am thankful even to have him as a friend. When we talk he often compliments me and last time we talked he did so and he told me he likes flirting with me but doesn't think I do enough of it to him. So I asked him if he wanted me to start flirting with him more. He said, "absolutely!" The definition of flirting that we came up with was making the other person feel good. A few times before this talk he said his back hurt and I told him I was good at back massages so I gave him one. He much liked it and since then have given him a few more back rubs. Since he told me he wants me to start flirting more with him I want to give him more than just a back rub. We have both communicated to each other that there is not going to be any sex during this time. He told me that he misses the physical flirting that he had with his ex ("but not out of hand I don't want to be a daddy just yet" were his words) so both he and I know what our limitations on that subject are. Bottom line, I have flirted with him by giving him back massages but I feel that is not enough and want to know what else I can do to flirt more with him. Thanks to all of you who took the time to read and answer this question.