is he really flirting?

[Kellie911]

Theres this guy i like and he was kinda shy, but now that he knows me he talks a lil more. The biggest thing he does is when i come in he leaves:confused:! Then a few days ago he started picking on me calling me lil names [like B*tch etc.] and then he punched my arms [playing around] all my friends and family says hes flirting........:confused: :eek: :confused: do you think this is true???

[shelle]

That's a hard call. The arm punching could be.
But the B@%$# part.......not too sure on that one. If he were flirting I would think he would stay in the room if you came in. It's hard to say.

[RosaMystica7]

i agree with shell, i doubt he'd call u a b*tch as flirting. i think the leaving the room when u come in could mean that he likes u considering he's shy.

u know what i would do? if he leaves the room, follow him. make an effort to talk to him, strike up conversation. when you talk to him get a little closer every couple of days and see if he keeps his distance or if he likes being close to u too. watch what he says in conversation - see if he asks things about u or if he only answers questions about himself. if he doesn't try to find out more about u he might not be interested.

guys are so confusing. don't try to figure them out. just try to do some detective work and get some facts to look at. :D

hope that helps. :)

[curious]

the name calling, the hitting, and the leaving the room all sound like games teen boys play. Is this your age group. Yes I have heard that five letter "B" word used as a sign of affection, but again, this is usually the behavior or the younger generation. What I's am saying is if you guys are teens then this is flirting. But if you are past high school age, then the name calling , especially "B*tch" and the hitting, especially punching:mad: dangerous signs of worse things yet to come. I would not attempt to pursue a relationship with this guy.

[LemonSprinkles]

Oh wow! I can relate to you...of course...I'm only 13 years old, and you're probably older then me or something ;) Wellz...there is this guy in my Cooking Class and he calls me the B-word too! Except he means it only in play. And he doesn't exactly...PUNCH my arm...but he just likes to "pick" on me...you know...like poke my arm...look in my stuff...~this is beginning to sound REALLY childish LoL~ Well... all I know is that when ******** does that to me, he's smiling or has a look on his face that you can tell that he is joking. If he looks like he is joking or if you know he is joking, then he DEFINITELY likes you, gurlie! :queen:

[emerald00]

i say you follow him casually, so he doesn tknow your following him, but that you just always seem to be there. hopefully, its at the right place at the right time :)