How many flowers should i give on a first date?

[Ares]

Is it ok to give roses on a first date?
To the gals - How many flowers should i give? :flower:
1, 3, 6 or 12?

[petepan]

The numbers of flowers doesn't matter. Make it to the maximum - 12. Girls will be very contented to receive flowers. Hopefully, one that can pounce on you, when you give her those flowers. Good luck! :daisy:

[rjapz]

Have you went on a date yet with her, if not. Here's what you can do. Buy her 11 roses, it will cost you, but it's worth it, depends how much you like this girl. I'll tell you why 11 roses. You'll go in like a true gentlemen. Girls just love that. And here's what you do. Hopefully there's a large mirror in her living room for this to work. when you at the door, her parent/sis/brother or whom ever opens up, lucky she does.

Hand her the 11 roses gently in front of her parents or anybody for a whiteness. Then say, here's 11 roses for you, she'll eventually ask you why 11 roses or something in that matter. You say " but first do a quick scan for a mirror" .Then say " here, let me show you why" but at the same time you talking to her in that smooth player voice. Then put her right in front of the mirror and say. " Can you see, there is the twelve most beautiful things in the world" . I swear to god that would melt her, those are big points my friend, you'll win her parents respect. If theres no mirror in sight, then just hand her over the 11 roses anyway and tell her that line. But if you already took her out and brought her flowers, well, do it to the next girl you go out on a date.

P.S. let me know how it went.:cool:

[Joey]

That is sweet and unique. It will make a deeper impression.

[rjapz]

You bet joey.

[Ares]

hi rjapz

that is good advice. How many dates have you bought 11 roses? Can you tell me more about each of your dates' reaction? thanks

[rjapz]

Yeah, but recently I haven't been dating, there just stuck up with me. I don't know what's going on.

I only used it twice. The 1st time I used this technique, was with a Thailand chick, hot girl, petite, 5'2 115Ib cutie. I don't know how did I even got her, being shy and all. I went up and knocked. I was lucky that everything went perfect at the date pick up. She open personally, had the 11 roses behind my back to surprise her, you know, the typical thing . But I was nervous as sh-t. Any way, I went in did a quick scan for a mirror and said, wow this is a nice house " you have beautiful sofa" . You know, I didn't make it obvious that I was looking for something in particular, but she already had an idea what I had behind my back. Everybody knows this method. But she didn't know nothing about the mirror. Well I then gave her the 11 fresh cut roses with stems, 1st impression will could make the hole evening like if you dreamed it. lucky for me there was a mirror in the hallway to my right, closed to the door, so I didn't have to look stupid and take her across town. Her sis was the whiteness. She was watching TV, no problem. Then I said what I told you, " here's 11 fresh cut roses " , She said why thank you. Your very sweet. But why 11 roses, I said well, come with me and I'll show you, I grabbed her hands gently, right in front in the mirror, but makes sure she's facing the mirror and looking into it directly at her self. While she still had it in front of her chest. I then told her, but in a different way. I said, do you see what I see, she said " no..what..me" ...yeah, and that complete 12 most beautiful things in the world. She stood quite for a min, I guess she got real emotion. Well, that night I had my tongue down her throat the hole night, lol. I didn't sleep with her cause Asian chicks have more respect for them self then allot of girls. Even If she wanted too, I wont, cause I had more respect for her then she had for her self. You see Ares, be a gentlemen, don't think about sex the 1st date, if the girls really want's it and begs, then go for it. Other then that, you 1st priority is respect, treat them like a princess. After that date, the next day she was my girlfriend. But sometimes it doesn't work for anybody, you just have to play all your cards right, from when she opens the door till you drop her in front of her door step.

The second time...Hmmm, I can't remember that well, cause the 1st time I did it was one of my best dates I ever had. But she had a little smile, and that passionate look in her eyes. But that time the mirror was like 20 feet away from us. But I grabbed her Hands and walked her over there. Her parents where at the kitchen at the time. The date went pretty good that day. We had a casual date relationship. No strong commitment.

Well, try not to look so obvious when you looking around. Look relaxed, and complement her house, that won't look subspecies.:tup:

[rjapz]

Remember me, the 11 rose technique. Well, have you used it yet or what?

[chickey1882]

on my first date with my b/f i got three roses one for friendship witch is for friendship, one pink for passion, and one red for love i think that's what should be given to a girl on your first date ;)

[Saint Peter]

Ares-
The idea that "rjapz" had i think is the best. I never even thought of it. Usually i would give one rose and lay out a line like..."a beautiful rose, for a beautiful girl", but "rjapz" idea is way phatter.Good luck bro.
~saint :angel5:

[Aki Ross]

wow, even Saint Peter is here. Shouldn't you be at the gate of heaven? :) nice nick.

[gonzolaguna]

Hey rjapz what do i do if she doesnt have a mirror anywhere near?

[JimmyBlue]

In my opinion, a bouquet is ridiculous on a first date.
Hell, you don't even know her. What's it supposed to do,
impress? It's more likely to spook her, it's "over the top".

It only takes one, with proper presentation. You don't
even have to say a damn thing. Just smile, and use your
powers of psychic projection... "You will be mine!".

In fact, I think it's best that you not try to be clever or
cute about it. The rose speaks for itself, unless you
screw up its message. So don't. Move on to other
things, knowing its imprint has been made. Let it
simmer unattended.

Bouquets are for anniversaries, weddings and funerals.
Don Juan needs but one. Holding it in your teeth is
optional, but not recommended unless your hands are
busy.

[Kaisharga]

However, a single rose (or other flower, i suppose) can work wonders on a first date. Though I'm not sure if it would be best presented in on-the-stem form or more of a corsage...i guess it depends on how formal you're going to be that night/day/whatever.

--Kaisharga