jealousy? please help me from breaking heart...

[sunnyness137]

hey.. well i had school dance today.. it went well till "he" messed it up.. this guy i like always makes eye contact with me or just say some random stuff.. and i know he doesn't do that around other girls.. but today at school dance i was sitting on the table with bunch of my friends.. and then i turn around and he's there with a girl slow dancing.. and idk y he wouldn't be by his friends.. he was like a foot away from my back.. and i got so pissed.. and he even told his friend that he doesn't like the girl he was dancing with.. cause they did go out but he dumped her everytime they went out cause she was too clingy.. aand all the sudden he dances with her in front of my face.. does that mean anything or is it just random stuff that he does

[Miss Direction]

It means, like, totally that you're like over-analyzing the crap out of this whole, um....thing.

Realize, yo....that women LOVE to be treated like crap and the interest TOTALLY sky-rockets (no matter the age) when one has total social proof that he can pull tail and that he's an a$$.

So....he's totally using her for sex, and she's like totally dumber than crap to realize it.

I think you need to take a pill and realize that your puzzy isn't gold and look at this black/white and logically. Not biased with your feelings. The dance didn't go wrong, your "feelings" only interpeted that. He has no clue that you like him, and probably doesn't really care at this point in the game. You are interested in a man that is just using a girl for a sextoy when he'll probably do that to you.....good "choice" in men.

LOL!

[sunnyness137]

uh yeah he uses her for popularity.. oh yeah she is dumber than she looks.. and he knows i like him.. cause he was begging to ask who i like.. and i told him i like him... and he didn't go out with anyone past 6 months..

[Miss Direction]

Women LOVE drama....end of story.

Six months?!

You seriously think he didn't do ANYTHING with another girl during that time.....pfft, yeah right.

[sunnyness137]

i'm positive that he didn't.. cause i'm like really good friends with his friend.. and he tell me everything that the guy i like tells him..

[mrrocko]

If you told him that you liked him and he didn't act on that in six months...move on. I mean, he obviously isn't interested. Pure coincidence that they were dancing near you. If you told him you liked him over 6 months ago and he didn't do anything about it, he's probably almost forgotten about it by now.

[sunnyness137]

well i told him that i like him about 3 weeks ago or something and he would just give me more eye contacts.. but before i told him that i like him, he already knew.. but thanks.. i'm trying to get over him..