Caught between flirty friends...

[NeedHelpBadly]

Alright, I've got a little dilemma here that I've been pondering for a few days now and have yet to decide what I am going to do. I am good friends with both a girl I go to school with and a guy that I used to live around. The two of them met at a party and seemed to hit it off somewhat. Shortly thereafter (last Saturday) my friend, Adam, asked if I would be able to deliver a message to her for him. (He doesn't know that I'm pretty tight with this girl). However, in saying this, he flat out told me that she isn't someone he wants to stay with, just have some fun with. I am hesitant to deliver the message because the girl, Amanda, has only been with one guy in her life...they were together for 7 years until a break-up last month.

I'd hate to be partly responsible for her getting hurt because I know that Adam isn't wanting a relationship but at the same time, I'm hesitant to not deliver the message at all. Any advice on what I should do??? :kaioken:

[dewshine]

Well I think to some point you have to trust that she knows what's good for her. She can take care of herself. And you never know, your guy friend may end up getting emotionally attached somewhere along the way too.

I say deliver it but make it clear to both of them you are neutral and don't want to get into the middle of whatever they have.

Good luck!

[mrrocko]

What Dewshine said is pretty accurate I think. You kind of got put in an awkward spot and I'd hate to be there myself. However, if you're truly friends with both of them, you've really left yourself no choice but to deliver the message and hope for the best.