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raritan
03-09-2005, 11:01 PM
I previous posted in a thread titled 'is my co-worker flirting with me'. not too much has changed, still really good friends with this co-worker. we exchanged an email the other day that kind of threw me for a loop, here is some of the highlights:

she wrote:

You kind of act funny like you want to tell me something.....any
more pigeon stories or what? (it's a long story.....)

I wrote:

nope and believe me you'll be the last person i tell - so you
think i act funny huh??

then I wrote:

oh there's lots of crap i'd love to tell you :-P j/k

then she wrote:

WHAT??

I wrote:

oh like you're a dork, you know stuff like that 8-)
kevin

she wrote:

what are you talking about....




so now i don't know what to do from here. did i freak her out or something? is she on to me and trying to call my bluff? and what would be a good reply to this email, something that:

1. if she is into me and is trying to feel out how i feel, she will pick up on and figure out, BUT...

2. if she is not into me, she could interpret another way, something more innocent, so i don't scare her off


or is email a mistake, too easy to be misunderstood?? i just don't know if i'm ready to make the leap to opening anything up in person - i just don't want to ruin the friendship if there's nothing there


thanks

raritan
03-09-2005, 11:03 PM
and in another message, i had just told her something confidential, sort of work related, you know office politics type stuff, and i asked her to please not tell anyone. she replies back to me:

don't worry- your thoughts/ words are always safe with me. Same for
you- I hope...


how should i interpret this?? i notice that we are becoming confidants, sharing stuff with each other...is this just a sign that she is comfortable w/ me as a friend, confidant, or is she showing more interest than that? i wish i could read minds sometimes....

Miss Direction
03-10-2005, 12:46 AM
You are WAYYYYY over-analyzing this man.

raritan
09-15-2008, 09:08 AM
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raritan
09-15-2008, 03:28 PM
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ajvv628
12-29-2008, 10:37 PM
so what ever did happen?