exiciting,but not getting any

[heatharmm]

I am married, for 19 years and my husband has never liked giving oral sex. He also is not in for any new stuff. I am lonely and feel that I have so much more to give and receive. I am really an open person and love to use every vital part of my being. I am looking for any suggestions or opportunities:cool:

[Kaisharga]

Maybe shower just before going at it on the occasions where you want him to eat you? A clean feel, taste, and smell is what some guys like. Another idea might be food--whipped cream, chocolate syrup, peanut butter (which works best if you're shaved), all can do the trick.

A good idea to get him to loosen up a bit might be to find out some sort of secret fantasy or thing that he wants, and blow his mind with it. See if you can come up with some things that'll really get him going, and later on you can say, "I was thinking of some more fun and different things to do to you today..."

Does he like oral sex given to him? Wait, what am I saying?! Of course he does! I guess the real question is, have you given him any? Probably, but if not, give it a try. A good pointer here is to not take your time--move as much over him as possible. If you practice enough, he'll probably open up to new stuff. Check out a sexual positions resource (AngelfireD, help me out, which was the one with the wooden dolls?), and surprise him by riding him another way. Experiment in subtle ways before going for weird stuff--walk before you can run, as they say.

Good luck!

--Kaisharga