I was wondering

[kk2004]

I am having problems building that special attraction with girls. Let me get more detailed. Girls talk to many guys, each girl has a group of guys from which she picks on who to date and like etc.. When i talk to girls, honeslty i feel like the girl will just treat me as like some guy she knows and not the sexual partner or bf she is looking for. Becuase u have to have somthing special, something diffrent from the rest off the guys and I feel like I am a regular guy and I dont have much that a gurl would be attracted to, i dont have much to offer, I would say im a 8 out of 10 guy, i have found out that from girls through my own ways. but other than my looks im just that joe that might make a gurl laugh and smile but she wont end up with me?

[Bran031]

Hey man i think ive got your same problem..Best thing to do it be yourself..be yourself make girls smile make them happy and once they mature they will realize who they like..i try to keep a relationship with all the girls in my school im always nice and funny. i be this way not to try to get the girls but they are my friends and they support me in things i do...just keep it up my friend, you will meet the one for you all you have to do is be the same

[Fireangel]

Look, stop being so unconfident..You sound pathetic, mabe that's what turns girl off..we can smell insecurity. Besides, maybe you are an 8 to your friends , but a hundred to a prescious girl you'l someday find..There's always a special someone for everybody. Or maybe a lot of special someone's. :bubbly:

[kk2004]

How do u gurls tell if a man is insecure. U said u could smell it lol. So what u suggest is that I keep trying to meet new ppl and try and see what happens.