Do girls know when theyre touching?

[Crono69]

Or being close. My friend and I were watching a movie and we were about a foot apart from eachother but as the movie went on we gradually got closer and she kinda turned a little toward me and our knees were touching and we stayed like that till the movie ended. Does she know she was getting close or does she not even think about it? Also the side of her that was next to me she flipped her hair behind her ear (only that side) I dont see her do that at school.

[Fireangel]

yeah usually it is like, most girls that are touchy feely do it in a friendly way you know? it's not like " hey, I am gonna touch him so that he knows I like him ", nope..that doesn't happen...a woman may likle you and she will not touch you just because she is veeery shy, such as in my case...what other hints has she given you?

[HappyEndingNot]

Well I have to say that a couple weeks ago I was watching a movie with a few of my friends, and the guy I like was sitting next to me, and at first we were like yeah a foot apart, but by the end of the movie we were touching... It kidna helped that my dog jumped up on his lap, so I was petting my dog and sorta like inching towards him... I am really shy about touching, so that was like the only way I could do it without being terrified... so yeah I guess it depends on the girl, and how shy she is.

[TheRev]

I was actually about to ask a sorta similar question, so I'll tack it onto this thread. The other day I was playing basketball with a bunch of friends and one friend's girlfriend. I was standing in front of the hoop and either she was guarding me or I was guarding her, I can't remember and it doesn't really matter. Anyway she was slightly behind me and to my left, and as she stood there her right breast pressed up against the back of my left arm. It wasn't just brushing up against me, I could feel the resistance. I was caught completely by surprise and just acted natural, the entire thing only lasted a few seconds.
Now I'm not asking whether she's into me or anything, I'm fairly sure she's happy with her boyfriend and not particularly interested myself. What I want to know is if she would have been aware of the situation. She didn't back off at all, as I would expect if it was a mistake.
So yeah, the question is the same as the thread topic, "Do girls know when theyre touching?" I mean personally I'm very aware of things like that, and I would think with breasts it would be even more obvious.

[Senor Suave]

i don't know a whole lot about this situation but if you ask me I think we guys are a lot more into the physical side of a relationship. I mean the majority of guys will first go after a girl cause she's a hotty right, its not wrong its our nature.

girls are more emotionally attracted to guys, now they do like the physical and all *dont get me wrong*, they LOVE kissing holding hands...etc, but what means more to most girls is on the inside and doing things like talking, opening up blah blah blah. Its their nature.

That's why guys are always so in tune with how close she is where she touches him and so on. Also on how he touches her or how close he sits.

While the girl will remember things like what he said or the compliments he gave her, more clearly than how close or where he touched her, but once again don't misunderstand *Girls will probably still think about that stuff and wonder when they should do it, just not as much as guys.* Also they may have no plan to touch a guy at all its her sub-concious mind expressing her feelings to the guy. now a shy girl will do as the others said, try not to touch as he may know of her feelings and stuff, but if a girl is comfortable around you she'll probably start getting closer and she won't really think about it.

I hope this kinda helped

As for theRev I'm not quite sure at all becauase the breast is usually a very sensitive part to the girl and it seems like she blatently put it there, it doesn't make sense with you saying she is happy with her boyfriend and not really intrested in you. Is there any other signs she has given you??

Will a Lady please answer theRevs question it's bugging me now too?!

[Patsfan75BC]

Or being close. My friend and I were watching a movie and we were about a foot apart from eachother but as the movie went on we gradually got closer and she kinda turned a little toward me and our knees were touching and we stayed like that till the movie ended. Does she know she was getting close or does she not even think about it? Also the side of her that was next to me she flipped her hair behind her ear (only that side) I dont see her do that at school.

dont jump to conclusions

[mrrocko]

It's actually impossible to say for sure whether the girl was aware or not. I mean, if she was really involved in the movie, she may have been paying no attention at all. Also, if you went to the movie as friend and have been friends for a decent amount of time, she may have just not really cared enough at the time to worry about it. I think you may be reading into it a little bit more than you should.

[Crono69]

We were watching a movie at my house byourselves. We were both enjoying the movie but she kept playing with the remote. She kept clicking it and it was kinda annoying me. She asked me to go to the movies today but with a couple of her friends. Kinda a weird situation since they all know each other and I only know her. Should I go?

[TheRev]

Of course you should go. Whether or not she likes you, either way the fact that you don't know her friends isn't going to be a big deal. Try to make a good impression.

[Senor Suave]

DUDE if a girl asks you to do something with her, GO. Don't worry about the fact you don't know her friends just get to know them, everything is a learning experiance. If she's not intrested in you like that *Which I highly doubt!* than she at least wants you for a really good friend. Go for it dude

Don't throw it away!!

GOOD LUCK

[behindBLUEeyes]

i know when i am touching a guy. what she did soudns like something i would do on purpose or something that i have done. i love sitting really close to a guy i like. whether he knows i like him or not. Now as for her inviting you out with her and her friends. i would take that as a good sign. i know that i only do that with a guy when i want him to get to know my friends. this way its not so awkward if we were to hang out more with eachothers friends around. i want my friends to be his friends too. but like i said...thats just me...and us girls are pretty screwed up sometimes and very very different from one another.

[Miss Direction]

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[Brandiwine]

hey, yes, itdepends on the shyness of the girl, but sometimes, no the girl doens't feel when she's touching someone, i, for nstance, have actually had my hand on a guy's genital and not noticed where my hand was, and no he's not small, cuz i coould feel him, i just was so into the movie that i didn't realize where my hand had slipped, and i also play basketball and have bumbped a guy wth mybob befor and yes that i noticed but since i had no feelings for this guy i pretended like it never happened, then again about md's movie bit, i think she definitely was trying to snuggle, cuz i have down that a few times, and the guy is so ignorant! until i started rubbing againsthis side then he got the hint :wacko:

[TheRev]

The thing is in my situation it wasn't a bump. She was pressed up against me for a good two or three seconds (which is longer than it sounds when you actually think about it in context). If she knew she was pressed up against me she certainly didn't do anything about it.

[Crono69]

You guys think she likes me? I dont think so. She asked me to the movies and 1 of her girlfriends couldnt come so it was me and 2 other guys! She didnt sit by me either! It went Me, other guy, other guy, her. She invited me, she should have at least sat by me.. Then at the end of the movie shes like "Im sorry for leaving you alone." I said "Whatever." and she kept apolgizing and I said "Screw you bitch!" No, I didnt, hehe but I told her I was mad and that she was just using me. Then I told her I cant do all these things for her as just friends and she said she didnt feel the same about me! Ive called her and she hasnt called me back. I think I screwed up big time. How can I fix this? I just wanna be her friend now, I dont want to lose her.

[silverscope]

ONE WORD
APOLOGIZE

how you go about doing it is for you to decide if she is a good friend and you joke around alot (or your a class clown) say "I'm sry for the other day it was my time of the month" or something of the sort or just go with the straight forward I'm sry

The point is go tell her your sry

[Crono69]

I did apologize and everything seems cool now. But I started insulting her friend cause hes giving her rides now and he ****ing offered her and hes 22 ****ing years old! If he is taking time out of his day to pick up a 17 year old highschool student then something just doesnt look right there. She got mad and said not everyone is like you! and I told her I never said I liked her and she was pointing out all the things I said and I said I dont like you like that and she said the same but didnt look at me. She always looks at me when we talk. She is still touching me too. Like purposely bumping into me and slapping my arm. She is so confusing....

[mdabhi]

don't get carried away she probably dosen't even know she was doing it. As for touching you if she pats your back in a friendly way she's just being friendly don't get your hopes up

[TOASTMAN]

If she didn't realise that she's getting close, then its better because that's what she really feel about u, because as u said that she doesn't do that at school, so she's 99% likes u, and i left this 1 percent because that might have been a normal action, but might not a fact, and if she meant the things u mentioned then its clear like crystal, she likes u man. take the next step!

[Crono69]

Ok heres a question. Would a girl do things like this with someone if they found them unattractive? You know, the touching, sitting close, looking at my eyes, etc. She even offers me her drink.

[EvilFishy9999]

Personally, I wouldn't act like that around a guy who I found unattractive - but a lot of girls flirt with people for fun, without having any intentions to get involved them. So make sure you're not taking it more seriously than she is.

[Crono69]

But shes a very shy girl. She gets embarrassed very easily and she turns so red. Today she wanted me to meet her dad.... I already met her parents but her real dad was visiting her. She said she told him about me. She is so confusing. She even asked me to a movie even though her dad was visiting and she said she still wants to have fun. An early movie though, like at noon. Oh yea and she had a sad look today and I said "Youre ugly when youre like that." And she said "You think im ugly!?" And I told her she isnt and she wouldnt believe me. She kept saying "Those were your words. Youre ugly." I said that because shes cute when she is happy and I dont like her when she is sad or pissed off at me. She seems obsessed with her looks and she askes me about her hair alot and if I notice that she got it highlighted or something and I ask her why she cares what I think and she just says "Cause youre my friend." And I am but she shouldnt have to ask what I think everytime.

[Iceman142]

that was probably the worst thing to say dude. as a guy you have to let things like that brush off, then ask her out alone next time. if you want something done, your the man, do something!

[Crono69]

Well what should I do? Tell her shes pretty? I tried to fix things up by saying I didnt say you were ugly I said youre pretty and she said NO YOU DIDNT! How do I got about doing this now? I dont think Ive ever complimented her without her asking what she thinks. I just think she will find it weird if I do. Also, she is always asks stuff about her appearance like when she gets her hair highlighted or something and I ask her why she cares what I think and she just says cause im her friend. She even asked me if I thought her hair was better long or short and I just shrugged and said I dont know. Im doing alot of things wrong here arent I?

[angel143ml]

It seems to me she keeps asking you these kinds of questions because...
a. what you like and don't like
b. she really values your opinion
c. she wants to look good to you.

And yes... you are doing everything wrong, especially the part about telling her she looks ugly when she is like that. Maybe if you give her a card, she will forgive you...Good Luck..

[Crono69]

I was trying to get her to lighten up because shes cute when she is happy thats what I meant I just said it that way cause I didnt want her to think im weird. Can someone tell me what to do? Shes hanging out with me like everyday after school for 2 weeks and yestderday she knocked on my car window and asked if I was leaving and I said yea and drove away. She called back later to ask to hangout again!

Oh yea and I think she is trying to make me jealous. Ill pretend to not be paying attention to her and she whips out this paper with a guys name and phone # on it, writes it on her assignment in class then rips up the paper with his name on it. Kinda felt like she wanted me to see that.

[BlondButBoring]

If there is a guy I know well who I like, I will be open and tell them how I feel, but if it is someone I don't know well, then I will do the exact thing that you are talking about this girl doing. She knew what shewas doing and you should call her!

[Crono69]

Accually, we both know eachother pretty well. Today she was sitting across from me and I felt her foot on mine for like 10-15 seconds then she looked under the desk and moved it away. I was pretending I didnt feel anything so I just kept staring at my book. How did she not feel that?

[chicagurl]

If there is a guy I know well who I like, I will be open and tell them how I feel, but if it is someone I don't know well, then I will do the exact thing that you are talking about this girl doing. She knew what shewas doing and you should call her!

ahh...but some girls...you know like 'me' are shy and aren't so open...but however I do know when I am touching or whatever doesn't mean I am not emotional, I am!

however I do like it when guys hold my hand and get close....but he can't be perverted about it! also If i liked a guy I would try to get closer to him during a movie...I mean come on girls are human too...they want physical closeness, it would be hard because I am shy.....but I would try!

when I was in 7th grade this dude accidently hit my chest area while playing basket ball in gym class and I am short and not very good at sports I was in NO way trying to flirt/hint to him that I was like hott for him.....i didn't say anything...I was very embarrassed and I hoped no one else caught it! LOl i can laugh at that now though!

[NHO3]

Or being close. My friend and I were watching a movie and we were about a foot apart from eachother but as the movie went on we gradually got closer and she kinda turned a little toward me and our knees were touching and we stayed like that till the movie ended. Does she know she was getting close or does she not even think about it? Also the side of her that was next to me she flipped her hair behind her ear (only that side) I dont see her do that at school.

This is human nature. The more time you spend with a person the more likely you are to be more open to them and touch them. If you watch people at resturants and movies etc you will notice it. Men and women do this. If a girl likes you as a friend or in any way she will be relaxed and maybe even touch you but not on purpose. Body language is a big part of human communication. It simply means she is comfortable with you and likes you, but not necessarilly in a romantic way.

[LovingHeart]

i think you havnt messed up that much just call her and leave a message saying that you love her.
bye i dont know if that advice will work iv never done it soz

daniel