Senor Suave
02-17-2005, 01:19 AM
K here's the prob. I like a girl that i'm pretty sure likes me k, i'll call her carly. Now One of my best friends is a girl who i'll call lisa. Now Lisa is best friends with carly and i've "used" ( if you will) lisa to get to know carly. All of this time i've known that Lisa has a pretty big crush on me and has for quite some time, I won't get into all the details, but i know she does. I don't like her that way but love her in another, like a sister thing, get my drift.
NE ways she didn't ever really know until now that i liked carly, and before now I have asked her what carly has said about me....and she said that she couldn't tell....blah blah blah etc. And when I would tak to lisa about carly she would tell me what kind of guys carly liked and how i had a pretty good chance with carly.
But recently i told lisa that I had started developing a crush on someone and she had to know who and wanted desperatley to know so after about a week of not telling her I gave in. After telling lisa about carly she seemed completley changed in her appearance, she seemed sad and depressed something I didn't expect, she said "that's really cool" and kinda trailed off. I haven't talked to her since, but mind you it's only been a few hours and it's about 11:00 p.m. so i'll see her tomorrow at school.
What my question is, is why did she seemed so depressed this time? Did she suspect it would be her that I liked, because I have always shown the fact I would never like her like that and she would have known that. Is she jealous, or even angry for me for liking her, I don't understand???? And what do I do if she was jealous/sad... I feel really bad.
NE ways she didn't ever really know until now that i liked carly, and before now I have asked her what carly has said about me....and she said that she couldn't tell....blah blah blah etc. And when I would tak to lisa about carly she would tell me what kind of guys carly liked and how i had a pretty good chance with carly.
But recently i told lisa that I had started developing a crush on someone and she had to know who and wanted desperatley to know so after about a week of not telling her I gave in. After telling lisa about carly she seemed completley changed in her appearance, she seemed sad and depressed something I didn't expect, she said "that's really cool" and kinda trailed off. I haven't talked to her since, but mind you it's only been a few hours and it's about 11:00 p.m. so i'll see her tomorrow at school.
What my question is, is why did she seemed so depressed this time? Did she suspect it would be her that I liked, because I have always shown the fact I would never like her like that and she would have known that. Is she jealous, or even angry for me for liking her, I don't understand???? And what do I do if she was jealous/sad... I feel really bad.