Please Read Me!!!!

[Miss Direction]

We have some females that just don't "get it" when it comes to men. That...and totally still believe that they (the females/younger "girls") are the catch. Too bad they don't realize that they are just after the attention and not really caring about the guy. Most women don't realize this for they don't think "logically", only about what they are "feeling" at the moment.

Isn't it funny how a woman will totally disregard you, but a few days later totally kiss your ass?

Here's a little something that I put in a few threads for a reply in the past. Just wanted to make sure you all saw it.

Later....
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Women love to be treated like crap. They love drama. They also fail to learn from history. Since they dont learn from other women's pasts, they repeat it. If women did learn from other women at a younger age, women would go for nice stable guys, not jerks who cheat on them or beat them up.

I find it funny how a woman will automatically disregard a guy that may be "seeing" or dating more than one person and label him as a player or worse, but if she does it....she's being "selective".

Uh-huh......suuuuuuure!

Most women are every bit the hypocrite and gold digger. The only difference between a good woman and a snotty one is the degree of their hypocracy and their looks. Again, if a man is a player, he is a pig. If a woman does it, she is a "princess" or "goddess" or whatever just looking at all her options. Women totally use their looks to get what they want in every aspect, and most of them don't have respect for guys as a result. It is almost as if Women have no use for men, except for 2 things: 1) to pay for everything and 2) give them kids.

God help you if you judge them for being what some of them are (disgusting, ugly bloodsucking leaches), or talk the truth about another woman this way. They almost never see themselves that way, and always circle the wagons for their fellow "sisters." Hell, I am not convinced that most women are not closet lesbians, either, the way they always want to "empathize" and bond with each other. If it were possible for women to grow penises, I bet women would just marry other women!

Anyway....women like to find a hottie looking guy and try to change him into what they want. Women are one of the laziest creatures, so they find what they are half looking for and figure they can change the other half or remodel the other half.

In other words, most women have no problem manipulating a guy to get what they want out of them until he is of no use to them. The Paris Hilton quote that said (and I am paraphrasing here) "Women need 4 animals: the mink on their neck, the jaguar in the garage, the tiger in the bed, and a jackass to pay for it all," perfectly sums up womanhood. Basically, women want two men in their life: the bad boy to lay them the pipe and knock them up, and the dumb ass nice guy who will pay for everything, including said bad-boy's kid, while she s some other guy behind nice-guy's back. The hot ones will use men for all they can, the ugly ones will still use men. The caveot is their looks dictate what they can get out of what kind of man.

Women also say one thing and do another. Their actions almost never match their words, mostly when they are younger. They will then tell their male- girlfriends that they wish they could find a guy like them. What they want is a hot guy that gets them wet who acts like the male gf. When you give the authority and put your foot down by keeping her on a lease (of course, she sees it as you being "protective"), it drives home the message that you can always find another puzzy. You have to make her realize that she's gotta work for you, not the other way around. This shows you that women are shallow.

But it is true when they get older and can no longer get the hot guys, they will start settling and going for the nice stable guy that they wouldnt have given the time of day to when they were 21.

And women wonder why guys play them when they can or are jerks! Heh...it's because each of these jerks has been burned by a stuck up, snotty, vapid princess! Guys are so sick of that, which is why fewer and fewer guys want to get married anymore; a guy has to be a sucker to get married anymore.

If you think MD is wrong, tell MD your revisionist history on almost all women going for jerks, not dating their male gfs (even though the male gf is the perfect choice) and etc.

In the end....Men mate to what they can afford and women to what they can attract (based on their looks). Are there exceptions, sure. Go to WalMart, that is the Galapagos Islands of dating and mating. How many frumpy women do you see there with there ugly low earning husbands?

[Fireangel]

:sleeping:
Totalmente loco..pobre freak..
For you to think that way about ALL women, you must have been treated really badly in the past. Therefore it's ok for you to think that way. Generalizing is the easiest way to feel lame about not finding the right person for you. In your mind you have this weird steoretype of women, I don't know why..you are just wrong. Goodluck for the future.. :good:

[Miss Direction]

As usual....you're the first to prove that women "can do no wrong" and always shine away from the obvious Fireangel.

Read the whole thing, especially the end....please explain to me the "why" then? Or don't you know?

LOL!

[kk2004]

So what u are saying generaly is that men should not take women as seriously as they do, and they shud not be putty in a womens hand. Essentaly like u said, the women shud have to work for the man, and that u shud try to say and act how u want and not change urself to meet what u think the girl will like or feel good from.

[cheeryxlips18]

There is no getting trough to idiots like you, is there?

OBVIOUSLY, the first person to comment on this post said something like You've been screwed over by someone in the past, so you are WRONG in saying that they make the female completely blameless.

What the hell is your problem? Not every girl is like that, and you will never find one who isn't if you keep your little bitch act up. You've been hurt, we all have, it doesn't make women bloodsucking vamps, OKAY?

You need to wake up and realize that not every girl wants money, not every girl want kids, and not every girl wants a good looking husband. Personally, I think the guys that are considered hot these days are not attractive at all. I want to make my own money at my own job and take care of myself. If that makes me a bitch, so ing be it, I'm proud.

My friend would like to also say: "I'm not a very angry person, I smoke a lot of weed, I don't like rich guys. I don't like guys with nice cars, I don't like the best looking guys - I like personality, and marajuana. Does that make me a bloodsucking whore? I've never screwed over a guy, I've lived in a house with all guys and I'm used to the typical bull that comes out of a typical guys mouth. I've watched my mother go through hundreds of guys and I understand some girls can be bloodsucking whores BUT TO SAY that every girl is, is being a sexist male pig, which you are. And I can also tell, that by all the bitching you probably have a small dick and that's why no girl wants you, and your personality is ing . So as a non-gold digging whore, I would like to say I would not even like to be with you, despite looks or money, cause you just sound like a piece of . So any girl who doesn't want you, I don't blame her, no matter if she is a gold digging whore. I hope you have fun as your bleeding in the ass while satan s your bigot ass with his tail. Thank you and goodnight." - Natasha Manaberg (The Psycho)

Oooo she's so right.

[Miss Direction]

>>>>I smoke a lot of weed

Heh....pot kills brain cells, and well, it shows here.

Here's a tidbit for you, I'm 25 and have had more LTR's than most people my age. I also date a lot, what have you done other than just start growing pubic hair?

[cheeryxlips18]

Heh....pot kills brain cells, and well, it shows here.

Natasha says: "If I didn't smoke pot every head like you would be dead."

She's serious.

What have I done? Oooo I won't go into that list. It won't prove to you anyway. You're way too messed up in the head to realize what a bigoted you're being. That you ARE. I hope I never meet a person like you in real life. I will walk away with their bity little balls in my hand.

The reason I keep on going even though you've got 'the whole thread with you' is because I KNOW I'm right and I will not give up this fight. You, sir, belong in the old ages when women were bought and sold. You've got an issue with power or something. Stop trying to say that all females are against you and want to get you. Loosen up and just let the good times roll already.

Ahhh... I said I wouldn't stop fighting, but I have school tomorrow, I have a life, you should get one. I hope you have a change of thought, one day, and wake up to the real world. I really do.

[Miss Direction]

>>>>>Natasha says: "If I didn't smoke pot every head like you would be dead."
She's serious.

I don't doubt it.
Druggies are usually f-ed up in the head.


>>>>What have I done? Oooo I won't go into that list. It won't prove to you anyway. You're way too messed up in the head to realize what a bigoted you're being. That you ARE. I hope I never meet a person like you in real life. I will walk away with their bity little balls in my hand.

You should really stop trying to be a comedian.

I'm a psych. major my little high school muff. I think I know a little more than you and you're "girl-gang".


>>>>>>The reason I keep on going even though you've got 'the whole thread with you' is because I KNOW I'm right and I will not give up this fight.

No...
You "think" you're right, when you don't think in the first place.

You're basing this on you getting launched in the past. Not "real relationships", just ONS's.

You just like the drama and won't give up because your female arrogance won't let it happen.

Again, who said women don't compromise?

Proof is right here!


>>>>>You, sir, belong in the old ages when women were bought and sold.

No...I just live in the "real world".

I'm done getting two, count 'em....TWO diplomas. One from high school and WAIT.....actually THREE! I double majored in college and just graduated.

My bad.


>>>>You've got an issue with power or something.

LOL!
Just because a woman doesn't get what she wants, she automatically labels the guy as "controlling".

Give it up (as in with men and sex), or don't piss around.

Men like women, not girls that play games.

Learn how to swim before you jump in the water moron.


>>>>>Stop trying to say that all females are against you and want to get you. Loosen up and just let the good times roll already.

I never did say that, women show me that.

How can I turn my back on something that is right?

Once a woman gets with a guy (most of the time), she ends up "getting bored" and dumps him for the BBD. That is....unless he gives her the ol' heave-ho before that.

Women like men that are in hot demand. This is why women love drama.

If you ever need to rekindle or spark that interest again in your woman, cheat on her...LOL! Especially if it's cheeky. She'll be wet just thinking of you in no time because she will realize that her twat isn't made of gold and has competition.


>>>>>Ahhh... I said I wouldn't stop fighting, but I have school tomorrow,

Yes!
Go learn about humanity and the "real world" for you haven't seen barely any of it yet.


>>>>>I have a life, you should get one. I hope you have a change of thought, one day, and wake up to the real world. I really do.

YOU have a life?!

Somebody....call CNN!

I'm in the management of a succesful buisness, and again...am out of college.

When you get done with your ABC's, please report back.

[TheKaris]

Heh Heh,

Miss direction you remind me of a friend of mine (I being a girl, him being a guy). Very opinionated chap, he will tell you his opinion and if you don't agree he will spend all his energy telling you his OPINION is right and your OPINION is wrong until the death when we all go: "Ok you are right", just because we are sick of arguing and he won't back down even if he knows he is wrong at the end.

Every woman is different, it's a little obivous that the only women you have been out with have been bitches. You can't say men aren't the same, men stay in bad relationships, where they are so attached they don't want to leave. Men can be totally oblivious to cheating girlfriends, or so good at hiding the fact that they are cheating on them. And since when don't men gold dig for money? I bet there are alot of men who marry rich women...i wonder who Paris Hilton will marry...Men say they will do things...does it get done? Hell no, it doesn't get done...they say oh i love you honey and have sex with some random woman from the pub. But hey! thats no all guys remember.

Men and woman both choose on looks, as if they don't. Men like a certain type of woman, and woman like a certain type of man, it's all a matter of perspective...the guys i find hot as, are guys my friends wouldn't even go near and it's vice versa...they like some guys who i think are totally ugly. At some stage in peoples lives, when they realize that their picky attitude towards a husband or wife isn't gonna get them one, they don't just pick one cause they need too...they start looking at personality and go from there...but it is true that some choose just because there is no one else...did you ever make a deal when you were kids "If we aren't married when we are twenty, lets get married", this also happens later in life too, only people change it to 40.

Myself, I don't want kids, I don't need a lot of money, both of us will work to pay off the house, buy food and an ok car etc. my husband doesn't need to be a millionaire. I don't want kids, they piss me off too much. I definatly don't go on looks, a person's personality brings out their sexiness...the guy i like right now was definatly not someone i would find hot when i first met him...i began to see who he was and thats what made him so hot now.

Miss direction, you sorta seem bitter on the subject of women, but you are welcome to your opinion, we just don't HAVE to agree.

[Miss Direction]

>>>>>Miss direction you remind me of a friend of mine (I being a girl, him being a guy).

That tells me right off the bat that you believe in the "drama land" where "that feeling" is just going to hit you at any time.

Women like to live in that "fairy-tale" land all the time thinking that everybody can get along and the world is such a pretty place filled with nothing but joy and happiness.

You know....there's a reason why women aren't President or in hard-core decision making jobs.

They don't "think", they "Feel".

Most of the time, your "feeling" judgement screws you over in the long run.

>>>>>Very opinionated chap, he will tell you his opinion and if you don't agree he will spend all his energy telling you his OPINION is right and your OPINION is wrong until the death when we all go: "Ok you are right", just because we are sick of arguing and he won't back down even if he knows he is wrong at the end.

It's sad that all women must resort to labeling a man as "bitter" just because he sees women in a bad light.

You need a head-check for you don't know what you're talking about.


>>>>Every woman is different, it's a little obivous that the only women you have been out with have been bitches.

I've had four LTR's and date lots. Each LTR went at least a year. Only one relationship went bad because of her cheating on me. Please show me where I'm going out with total bitches all the time.

I find it funny how women claim to come on here and talk the talk when they don't even date women. How can one give advice when they don't know what they are "feeling". ALso, given that most women don't even understand themselves, shows greater fault in your reasoning.


>>>>>You can't say men aren't the same, men stay in bad relationships, where they are so attached they don't want to leave.

Men could care less about the relationship.
They just do that because they probably don't get laid or whatever that often. It has nothing to do with you really.


>>>>>Men can be totally oblivious to cheating girlfriends, or so good at hiding the fact that they are cheating on them.

Huh?!
It's so much easier for a woman to hide it than a man.

This is a given.


>>>>>And since when don't men gold dig for money? I bet there are alot of men who marry rich women...

Men don't "marry" just for money.
Men tend to avoid marriage as much as possible.

If you "bet", that means you have nothing to base your argument on.

You're just flappin' gums because I put you in a bad light.

Live with it.


>>>>>>i wonder who Paris Hilton will marry...

Do we care?


>>>>>Men say they will do things...does it get done? Hell no, it doesn't get done...they say oh i love you honey and have sex with some random woman from the pub. But hey! thats no all guys remember.

Men will do things depending on how much you do NOT nag on them to have it done.

Some women have yet to grasp this concept.

If you're dumb enough to spread your legs for a man that bangs barflies, that's your problem in picking men.


>>>>>Men and woman both choose on looks, as if they don't.

Uhh....
Let's revisit PSYCH 101.
Men are "visual" creatures while women are "emotional".

When dealing with women, and "sparking" that "attraction" in her, you have to dig deeper.

If a woman goes solely on looks and holds that highly in regards to mate choosing, she's either really nieve/young (needs to impress her friends), or a slut.

Personality wins hands over fist everytime with women.

This is why you see ugly men all over with incredibly hot women.

Didn't you get the memo?


>>>>>>Men like a certain type of woman, and woman like a certain type of man, it's all a matter of perspective...

No...
Men are "attracted" to a certain type of woman. Women are the same too but don't "pick" logically their mate. A woman has no control over who she is or isn't attracted to. It's a non-conscienous reaction.

When a woman is attracted to you, half the game is over.


>>>>>>when they realize that their picky attitude towards a husband or wife isn't gonna get them one, they don't just pick one cause they need too...they start looking at personality and go from there...

No...
Women get lonely and know their loosing it while their clock is ticking.

As women get older, they "settle" and like I said....they then turn to the "nice guys" that they wouldn't have given 2 minutes to back when they were 21.


>>>>>>but it is true that some choose just because there is no one else...did you ever make a deal when you were kids "If we aren't married when we are twenty, lets get married", this also happens later in life too, only people change it to 40.

OMG!
You are such a dramatic fool!


>>>>>the guy i like right now was definatly not someone i would find hot when i first met him...i began to see who he was and thats what made him so hot now.

No....
He pursuded you and you "magically" fell for him. Too bad he just found a way to spark your attraction for him. Hate to burst your "dramatic lovey" story that you see in the movies.


>>>>>>Miss direction, you sorta seem bitter on the subject of women, but you are welcome to your opinion, we just don't HAVE to agree.

How can I be bitter when I know what's going on?

[Fireangel]

I cannot say you are bitter because I don't know you. It is quite lame that you are discussing an abstract theme with people you don't even know, in the internet. And write humongous posts about how you are right. Your point of view is respectable. I just have to say that..being 25 doesn't make you knowledgeable at all. " To know is to know that you know nothing. That is the true meaning of knowledge...Confucious". I guess you have to be open to other people's ways of thinking, how can you be so knowledgeable about women if you don't know all the women in the world? I mean, seriously. I am from Mexico. Women from Mexico have way other way of thinking than people in Europe and People in America.

[TheKaris]

You make me laugh Miss Direction, i fell off my chair because your post is so ignorant. The problem with you is, you think you are a know-it-all...you are 25 right? hardly enough time to think you know everything. deep and meaningful relationships really start when a guy gets mature around about 25..

4 long term relationships? well one year can hardly be termed long term, about 5 years or possible 8...i would even let it slide on three...

>>>>>> I've had four LTR's and date lots. Each LTR went at least a year. Only one relationship went bad because of her cheating on me. Please show me where I'm going out with total bitches all the time.

Well the only thing you seem to talk about is the bad part of women, thus making me think (not feel mind you) that you have only ever had bad relationships..i haven't ever read one of your posts where you have said something nice about women.


>>>>>> Men could care less about the relationship.
They just do that because they probably don't get laid or whatever that often. It has nothing to do with you really.

I don't know what world you live in, but there ARE weak men out there...who stick in relatinships and i'm talking about smart, good looking men, with great personalities who stay in relationships even though the girlfriend treats them like . I've seen in at least 3 times in the last 5 years, with three different guys and their girlfriends.



>>>>>> OMG!
You are such a dramatic fool!

Me? thats haliarious the only way i am dramatic is because i am drama student.


>>>>>>No....
He pursuded you and you "magically" fell for him. Too bad he just found a way to spark your attraction for him. Hate to burst your "dramatic lovey" story that you see in the movies.

You don't actually know the people that you viciously reply too, if you did, you woulf find i am nothing like you describe...
i don't believe in magically falling in love with anyone, i also don't believe that things work out like the movies, i know that all to well and thats why i don't even watch them, i just sit through my friends telling me about them.

>>>>>>How can I be bitter when I know what's going on?

you can be bitter, because as i said you say nothing nice about anyone or anything that i have seen in previous posts, you are a very negeitive person and its a shame cause you seem like a smart person, you are so absorbed in thinking you are riight all the time that you have become bitter. You are a sad sad little man and nothing you can say will upset me because i am quite confident that you are wrong and probably everyone else on the board is right...I am quite confident that i know what i am talking about and i KNOW WHO I AM :)
have a nice day

[Miss Direction]

>>>>>>It is quite lame that you are discussing an abstract theme with people you don't even know, in the internet.

Yes!
How dare I speak on a message board that's placed on the net for that very reason!

Guess what Fireangel....Strike 1!


>>>>>And write humongous posts about how you are right.

All you do is deny, deny, deny....but never say anything to back up your denying.

Please show me some psychological and biological proof of your words.


>>>>>>I just have to say that..being 25 doesn't make you knowledgeable at all.

Since when did I claim to "know it all". I know men "think" and women "feel". Look around at what's going on in the world, it doesn't take an idiot to figure it out.


>>>>>I guess you have to be open to other people's ways of thinking,

Men get the shaft most of the time by pouring themselves into women emotionally only to have that not returned.

Again....men "think", women "feel".

Most women wouldn't know a "good man" if it kicked them in the ass. Women LOVE to be treated like crap (in a logical sense), because it gives them the "feeling" and drama that they crave.

If a woman was direct, etc....we wouldn't have all this mind-game b.s. "It's not you, it's me", "Fine!", just to name a few...

Strike 2!


>>>>>how can you be so knowledgeable about women if you don't know all the women in the world?

Culture has a lot to do with it, but only vary's customs and how submissive women are in their roles to men.

Whatever way you look at it, women are biologicaly made up the same, all across the globe Fireangel.

Strike 3!

You're out!

>>>>>You make me laugh Miss Direction, i fell off my chair because your post is so ignorant.

Really?!
Then you're gonna start crying on this one.


>>>>The problem with you is, you think you are a know-it-all...you are 25 right?

No...
The problem here is your female ignorance unwilling to take blame for certain actions. Women cop out day in and day out, because it's what they "feel like", not what "makes sense" logically. What's right doesn't always agree with what a woman feels.

To this date, you still are holding to your imaginary guns.


>>>>>deep and meaningful relationships really start when a guy gets mature around about 25..

So....
My longest which was a four year relationship with the girl that I thought I was going to marry was just a walk in the park?!

Please....

Oh...and check the facts, women are the "late-bloomers" when it comes to maturing. Men do so around the tender age of 21. Women "don't know what they want" and never will. They always "follow" their feelings in life as a whole and chase after what they are attracted to in the mating game.

BTW.....Psychology even proves the lack in girls "growing up" to be women. Do some reading, I think you'll be quite surprised.


>>>>>Well the only thing you seem to talk about is the bad part of women, thus making me think (not feel mind you) that you have only ever had bad relationships..i haven't ever read one of your posts where you have said something nice about women.

Maybe you should do a search on my posts before you bother replying. It would save you some embarresment.


>>>>>I don't know what world you live in, but there ARE weak men out there...who stick in relatinships and i'm talking about smart, good looking men, with great personalities who stay in relationships even though the girlfriend treats them like . I've seen in at least 3 times in the last 5 years, with three different guys and their girlfriends.

Which is what I just said.

Hello?!?!?!

Dumb men think like it's the last time their going to get laid when they act like that. These are "puzzyfied" men. Or should I say...."boys". Us males can't just jump from guy to guy and look for attention everywhere like you women can. We usually need some time off between relationships.


>>>>>>you can be bitter, because as i said you say nothing nice about anyone or anything that i have seen in previous posts,

Again....a woman will do whatever she wants just to "feel good" even if it's not the "right thing".

You should quit trying to change people.


>>>>>you are a very negeitive person and its a shame cause you seem like a smart person, you are so absorbed in thinking you are riight all the time that you have become bitter.

Oh, my....
So much to say, but so little time.

Yeah....and you're ugly.

LOL!


>>>>>>You are a sad sad little man and nothing you can say will upset me because i am quite confident that you are wrong and probably everyone else on the board is right...

Check other threads and post about how I give dating advice and how the guys of Acmelove come back and recite testimonials about their triumph success stories.

Anybody can fake confidence, but when you're confident in your reality....all kinds of things happen.

Now then....when you become single again and get out of your "relationship womb", you'll see what I'm talking about.

Kinda like how parents tell their boys to treat women. All the "wussy stuff" in the early stages which ALWAYS backfires on the guy.


>>>>>>I am quite confident that i know what i am talking about and i KNOW WHO I AM
have a nice day

Hehe....ok, then!

[ajvv628]

Miss d is like a god to me. ur posts speak volumes. i followed miss ds advice and i have this one girl who is literally obsessed wiht me. miss d ur awesome

[LaB]

That is the biggest bunch of BS ive ever heard.

While women may physically (notice i said physically) mature faster, they by no means mentally mature faster, and this has been proven time after countless time to me.

And once again because a guy gets on here and lays out some of the f'ed up stuff men have to deal with, he gets called bitter. Yet men get blasted on a daily basis about how we are inconsiderate, unemotional, unreliable, pigs, who only want sex. If you dont believe watch your tv, all day long on these crappy talk shows its my man did this my man did that. We get no respect.


Miss direction never once has stated all women are like this...he doing what is called "generalizing" which happens to men as well as women.

And to those of you saying hes trying to make people believe his opinion is the right, you should really read your own replies because your being hypocritical.

[TheRev]

Miss Direction has some very valid points, but like with any extremist they are lost amid rampant rambling. If you girls don't know what I mean, think about it like you're reading an article by a feminist extremist. You agree with the basic points, even if the woman writing them is a little bit off the deep end. Same goes for political extremists.

Anyway guys are dumb, and girls are dumb. I've found that guys are a lot more logical, though. Maybe that's just because I'm a guy. I sometimes almost wish I was gay just because it would make things so much easier. Anyway I'm an optimist, and I look around at all the happy couples and I see that in the long run things generally work out. Getting there may be a bitch, but that's life.
It is true that if I were to be an ass I could probably get more girls, but I'm not about to do it. I have more respect for them than that, more respect for myself. In the end you are the only person you have to answer to, the only person you can judge. And I like being able to look at myself in the mirror and know that even if I got shafted, I'm still a good person. And there are girls out there who recognize that, because frankly if you look around at people in their 40s and beyond that are still bachelors, you can generally figure out why. It isn't because they were too nice, that's for sure.

[badboykilla]

Stable relationships are boring. Stable guys make for stable relationships. Drama is good.

Enough said.

[Miss Direction]

B.S.!
Women like "projects" and like to "fix" something.

If there is nothing worth fixiing, they move on to the BBD while giving the guy some lame excuse.

Women crave on drama and almost wrap their whole lives around it.

There is nothing a woman LOVES to do more than to watch a man, especially an ex (EVEN if she was at fault) pine for her because of her attention whoring capabilities.

Most women are totally selfish, use men, and don't and wouldn't know a good relationship or man if it kicked them in the ass.

Live with the truth, life's a lot easier that way.

[HappyEndingNot]

I just have a few questions...

So why do guys not like to go out with girls who are smarter than they are?

Like don't you learn in very basic psychology classes that a woman CEO is going to have an extremely hard time finding a man?


And why can a girl be the same way with two different guys, and one guy says she is being too clingy, and the other guy says she isn't being confident and isn't approaching him enough?

Explain shy girls. I don't see them manipulating men.

[Patsfan75BC]

:sleeping:
Totalmente loco..pobre freak..
For you to think that way about ALL women, you must have been treated really badly in the past. Therefore it's ok for you to think that way. Generalizing is the easiest way to feel lame about not finding the right person for you. In your mind you have this weird steoretype of women, I don't know why..you are just wrong. Goodluck for the future.. :good:

Stop denying it, you know its true

[LaB]

women that are very intelligent are generally not attractive...dont believe me? look up the 10 women ceo's and tell me what you think.

and not all men are afraid to go out with smart or smarter women

[Patsfan75BC]

I perfer smarter girls, more to talk about and odds are better of her being successful in life

[Miss Direction]

Not all women that are smart and actually know what's going on are unattractive.

Some are, and some aren't....but most men don't dare touch one of them because they know they have "options".

[TheRev]

It's pretty basic male psychology. Most men feel threatened by a woman who is smarter/stronger/more successful/whatever than he is. It's been covered in more sitcoms than I'd care to count. Not much to discuss. Personally I like a woman with depth if I intend to get into a real relationship, I can't say I've ever met one that I felt threatened by in any sense.

[Miss Direction]

>>>>>Most men feel threatened by a woman who is smarter/stronger/more successful/whatever than he is.

Where did I say that?
I'm not frightened by a woman that could possibly be smarter than me, if anything, I'm awwed by it.

Men don't get involved with these types of women because they fear their heart being crushed, not necessarily "just because" their smarter, etc. In other words, they KNOW the WOMAN has MANY "options" in life whether it be dating or otherwise.

[TheRev]

I wasn't responding to you, I was responding to HappyEndingNot.

[Miss Direction]

It doesn't matter, your response was ill-stated and full of loopholes.

There was nothing concrete in it other than an opinion. An opinion that wasn't right.

[TheRev]

I didn't feel any need to bring up evidence, I was stating a fairly common belief. If you'd like to refute it, how about you provide some of your own. And don't give me that 'I don't feel that way so therefore no one does' load of bullsh*t. In my initial post I stated that I don't feel threatened by strong women. That doesn't make it any less of a stereotype for men to feel that way. You need to learn how to properly evaluate statements for what they are, instead of immediately attacking them because you think you might actually have an argument.

[Marigold]

The more I read of you, Miss D, the more I'm getting to like you. I'm a girl with the brain of a guy, I prefer the company of men because men don't play the games women do. I can definitely agree that women act in a far more emotional manner than men do, we're wired differently.
Here are a few points for you to ponder:

>>Are you a talk show host? You seem to put more energy into your posts than I do into my whole days (granted that's not because I'm a woman, just 'cause I personally am lazy)? If not, you ought to be. Republicans must love you.

>> You do, however, constantly demand proof proof proof from your "opponents" on the board while making grand, sweeping generalizations yourself. It is a bit hypocritical. For example, gay men are capable of far more drama than most women. If you are arguing that women are dramatic due to our hormones, the same generalization must go for men.

>>Since you are applying stereotypes to the whole "woman-race", let me throw some back at you. You are arguementative, in the extreme. You like to "fight". You probably watch wrestling, and play violent video games. The urge to fight and argue is a very male trait.

>>You take things that apply to "some" women, and sticker them on to all of us. I have met women like the ones of which you speak: bimbos who use thier b00bies to haul in the biggest fish, take his money, and leave him to suffocate on the beach. But MOST women are not like that. A remarkable amount of us are reasonably good people.

>>Many girls look for drama. A lot of girls deliberately pick relationships they know will be bad for them to generate drama. Most girls do not. Our hormones do make us slightly less rational at certain times of the month, and speaking for myself at least, my mind occasionally generates problems that don't exist. But once I've calmed down I always clear things up, because I don't want drama. Another generalization, Miss D.

>>A college degree doesn't count for much these days (even two). It does mean you can spell and gives you a slight edge on the 14-year-old enemies of yours.

>>I'd have to say that while women are looking for the BBD, men are looking for the BBB (breasts/bootie). While women make some irrational descisions, occasionally men stop thinking all together and follow their d1ck around to the nearest creature on 2 legs. I'm sure there's a few chapters in all those psych texts about men cheating on women ( a far more frequent occurance than the other way around). Your own personal history does not apply to the entire human race. And it's equally difficult to hide a cheating relationship for both sexes.

>>Lots of men marry for money. Haven't you ever been to the trailor park? I'd have to say that this statistic is just about even, women who marry for money are a bit easier to spot. Women marry for LOTS of money, most of the men (in my personal experience) marry so they can just play playstation all day.

>>I agree on the mate-choosing. Men are keener on looks, women go for obscure reasons unknown to us. Generally relationships chosen only on looks don't last.

>>"projects"? I've only ever encountered this one on "Sex and the City". Generalization again, mon ami.

>> Since when are men more responsible than women? Women mature emotionally and physically faster, I promise you'll find that in Psych 101 text. There are exceptions to this, of course, but the usual definition of mature involves "settling down". If women want to settle down earlier, it means they are mature earlier, neh?

>>I think you occasionally have valid points about relationships and women. You worry me because you're getting all the little boys worked up about your opinions. It's very easy to demonize women, and almost impossible to refute you, since you argue with generalizations and refuse to accept them as rebuttals. It is true that some women are dirty whores --- like Paris Hilton--- but it's also true that the majority of women are good people. We're looking for a mate who won't cheat, who doesn't lie, and who has a stable financial standing, JUST LIKE MEN. It helps if he has a great butt NOT TOO DIFFERENT FROM MEN. We are not demons, or at least most of us aren't. Dont give the kiddies bad ideas.

[TheRev]

Impressive post, I agree with pretty much everything though I can anticipate a few angles of attack. I must say you are one of the most stable people I've seen in this forum.

[Miss Direction]

Oh, great....another 20 year-old woman that thinks she's owns the key to the book of knowledge just because she has a puzzy. Where do we start?


>>>>>>The more I read of you, Miss D, the more I'm getting to like you. I'm a girl with the brain of a guy,

Right there....You are using "younger woman" womanesse. You "think" you "think" like a guy, but don't. No woman at your age does unless she's REALLLLLY religious or has other things going on.


>>>>>>I prefer the company of men because men don't play the games women do.

No...
You perfer the company of men because they give you a good dickin'. That...and you like to feel sexy and worth something hanging around all these men. Men are taught to stay away from women like you, because the second we do something wrong, you got another one lined up ready to go.


>>>>>>I can definitely agree that women act in a far more emotional manner than men do, we're wired differently.

Well....no $hit!

LOL!


>>>>>Here are a few points for you to ponder:

Heh...this OUTTA be GOOD!


>>>>>>Are you a talk show host? You seem to put more energy into your posts than I do into my whole days (granted that's not because I'm a woman, just 'cause I personally am lazy)? If not, you ought to be. Republicans must love you.

I hate Republicans and yes....it is becuase you're a woman that you're "naturally lazy". You have all your guy friends willing to do everything and anything for you. Society caters to you, haven't you gotten the memo?


>>>>>>> You do, however, constantly demand proof proof proof from your "opponents" on the board while making grand, sweeping generalizations yourself.

Huh?!
Look at cheating stats and how women are RISING at an ALARMING rate of cheating?

Look at divorce stats!

What part of men NOT wanted to get married AT ALL unless he's a sucker did you not understand?

A woman lying saying "trying" to manipulate you and/or have you get her pregnent.

That and many other things.....face it moron, women are doing whatever they can to continue to emasculate men. Go do some reading and look up some stats before your femi-nazi self comes on here trying to say I'm "making this stuff up".

That was funny though, you should go into comedy!


>>>>>It is a bit hypocritical. For example, gay men are capable of far more drama than most women. If you are arguing that women are dramatic due to our hormones, the same generalization must go for men.

No....
What I'm saying is that you should go read up on some psychology before you come on here and try to make, in your words "generalizations" about "what's really going on".

When you don't know what you're talking about, you look like a bigger moron than before.


>>>>>>Since you are applying stereotypes to the whole "woman-race", let me throw some back at you. You are arguementative, in the extreme. You like to "fight". You probably watch wrestling, and play violent video games. The urge to fight and argue is a very male trait.

Well.....
And what's women, to AVOID CONFRONTATION. So what's your point. I think we knew that since the beginning of time. That....and if you think I'm "arguing" in the extreme, you need to hang out with more people that have a dry and sarcastic sense of humor once in awhile.

You really don't know what you're talking about, so don't act like it, please.....


>>>>>>You take things that apply to "some" women, and sticker them on to all of us. I have met women like the ones of which you speak: bimbos who use thier b00bies to haul in the biggest fish, take his money, and leave him to suffocate on the beach. But MOST women are not like that. A remarkable amount of us are reasonably good people.

Yep!
That is....until you come across a guy that just makes you wet and makes you "ignore" all the other things in your life. Once you give a woman a good dickin', she's hooked until another one comes along. Women NEVER think for the guy, only FEEL for themselves. If she's not FEELING very comfortable with a guy, she'll cheat on him, etc. The women (or should I say girls) around your age group are great at keeping that negative trait alive. Totally flakey, emotional, can't figure anything out, jumping from guy to guy.

Again....you say something, then go and do something completely different.


>>>>>Many girls look for drama. A lot of girls deliberately pick relationships they know will be bad for them to generate drama.

No....
They do this so they can try to "change" the guy into what they want him to be/act like. Do you know what you just typed? Do you really think most smokers LIKE the fact that their killing themselves/shorting their lives with every cig they smoke? You moron....no, they just do it because it's a habit. You don't go out looking for stuff that will backfire.

Get a clue.

Girls do this becuase they don't know worth a how to read their emotions. They FEEL GOOD, and they go chasing after a dick, only after they sleep with him, do they then sit and wonder...."Gee, I'm a dumbass, maybe if I could think instead of walking around like a blind person following my feelings, guys would stop using me for sex."

Most women fail to take responsibility for their actions as well, they just like to avoid it at all cost. If you women were so smart, this wouldn't be a problem. I hate to break your bubble....but quit being so positive. Women never know what they want, just what they don't want. It's all about them walking around with no brain touching a stove so many times and finally taking the hint after they get burned enough times.

>>>>>Most girls do not.

You can tell me 2+2=4, but when dealing with men, logic does not apply. Proof of this is straight from the get-go. If you have this "awesome logical power", how come you can NEVER logically tell yourself to FEEL NON-ATTRACTED, etc. to a guy UNLESS HE does something to screw it up?

Bottom line, NO amount of peer pressure, self-convincing, etc. can make a woman NOT feel attracted to a guy.

You're reachin'.....really, you are.


>>>>>Our hormones do make us slightly less rational at certain times of the month, and speaking for myself at least, my mind occasionally generates problems that don't exist. But once I've calmed down I always clear things up, because I don't want drama. Another generalization, Miss D.

Again....a woman saying she doesn't like drama. Remember, women are emotional creatures, so you have to constantly keep them "stimulated" so they don't stray to another dick.

You may think you know what you're talking about, but it's hard to judge when you're on the inside looking out.


>>>>>>A college degree doesn't count for much these days (even two). It does mean you can spell and gives you a slight edge on the 14-year-old enemies of yours.

They aren't my enimies, just kids who flame me when they don't have a clue what their talking about.


>>>>>>I'd have to say that while women are looking for the BBD, men are looking for the BBB (breasts/bootie).

Incase you weren't paying attention, men don't stray unless you're not giving them sex. That's usually the case, however...with women, it's ALWAYS the man's fault. "He doesn't pay attention to me, he doesn't talk, etc...., even if I suffocate him 24 hrs. a day!"

Women LOVE to treat men like crap by not giving them sex. Women don't know what they want, and never do....just bounce from guy to guy FEELING their way to what they want. This is why women are so dumb when they think and talk about "finding that one true love" becuase their too dense to figure out it's them being the dumbass, it's nothing to do with the guys.

Women are all about "thinking" their puzzy is the best thing since sliced bread and it's not at all uncommon for one to lay a guilt trip on a guy from time to time just to get what she wants, make a guy feel bad for something (even if it was wrong) just so she can feel good about her "power".

>>>>>While women make some irrational descisions, occasionally men stop thinking all together and follow their d1ck around to the nearest creature on 2 legs.

No...
Again, your female arrogance speaks.
Most men have a "three-date rule", this is to avoid falling in the "friend's zone". In other words, we don't wait around for you to make up your "feelings" to avoid fallling into the male-girlfriend trap.


>>>>>I'm sure there's a few chapters in all those psych texts about men cheating on women ( a far more frequent occurance than the other way around).

Again...check the facts.


>>>>>Your own personal history does not apply to the entire human race. And it's equally difficult to hide a cheating relationship for both sexes.

Neither does your ignorance.


>>>>>Lots of men marry for money.

Huh?!
That's funny!


>>>>Haven't you ever been to the trailor park? I'd have to say that this statistic is just about even, women who marry for money are a bit easier to spot. Women marry for LOTS of money, most of the men (in my personal experience) marry so they can just play playstation all day.

NO MAN marrys for money.
Remember....a wedding is primairly a day for the bride/woman. Men don't dig marriage at all really, only for a guarentee of sex. Women, on the other hand, look to marriage as life insurance.

Again...you have a lot to learn.


>>>>>I agree on the mate-choosing. Men are keener on looks, women go for obscure reasons unknown to us. Generally relationships chosen only on looks don't last.

You don't know what you're talking about and you just proved it. You don't know what you chase after because it's common sense and black/white stuff right in front of your face, but since you don't think logically....it doesn't make sense. You chase after what you're attracted to. Men are visual creatures.
This is why men like porn so much.


>>>>>>"projects"? I've only ever encountered this one on "Sex and the City". Generalization again, mon ami.

You're 20 years old, you're still trying to change men or help mold them into something that you think they should be. I don't buy that for a second.


>> Since when are men more responsible than women? Women mature emotionally and physically faster, I promise you'll find that in Psych 101 text. There are exceptions to this, of course, but the usual definition of mature involves "settling down". If women want to settle down earlier, it means they are mature earlier, neh?

Women do NOT mature faster. BOTH sexes change a GREAT DEAL between the ages of 20-25. To every woman, "settling down" could mean a million things.

For you to say a woman matures faster, makes me and about everybody on the planet that knows better and women that are willing to fess up to their faults laughing their ass off.


>>>>>>I think you occasionally have valid points about relationships and women. You worry me because you're getting all the little boys worked up about your opinions.

They "boys" here come here for information on how to get their dick wet. The women "try" to help saying "Maybe this....maybe that...".....Too bad nobody tells them that men/women are different and since women aren't logical, their (the women on this board) really don't have much for input. Trying to predict and/or analyze a woman and her actions are like trying to trace the waves of the ocean on the beachfront.

Men have to stick to their guns and act like men in order to make women like them. Women are drawn to these masculine tendicies. Don't ever tell me or the fellow male posters here any different. You're just trying to avoid putting out as much as you can. Sex is like a drug to men at times, to women, it's like..."Well, must I?". Women don't have the same need for sex that men do, clearly you don't know this.


>>>>>It's very easy to demonize women, and almost impossible to refute you, since you argue with generalizations and refuse to accept them as rebuttals.

Stats, human behavior, looking at what women do outside your front door, common day psychology/sociology, and human biology all prove my points. What do you have again other than rebuttal to avoid being seen in a bad light?


>>>>>>It is true that some women are dirty whores --- like Paris Hilton--- but it's also true that the majority of women are good people.

Yeah....until they "FEEL uncomfortable" which could be at anytime or moment. You bang 'em and move on, becuase once she's got you and/or has taking your loveness, she'll move on because you are now "boring" to her.


>>>>>We're looking for a mate who won't cheat, who doesn't lie, and who has a stable financial standing,

Isn't that womanesse for: "I'm looking for a man that will stay whipped to my pussy, obey my every order and do whatever I say, and has deep pockets so I can shop till I drop."?


>>>>JUST LIKE MEN. It helps if he has a great butt NOT TOO DIFFERENT FROM MEN. We are not demons, or at least most of us aren't. Dont give the kiddies bad ideas.

Ok....my 20 year-old single mommy.

LOL!

[blondegirl]

WoW reading through threads and I found "miss direction's" ( our gay man of the board) plea for reading his moronic and oh so pointless thread.

WHY on earth was that last post so long?
don't you get it that people don't want to read such loooooooong posts..especially when you are getting no point across. :sleeping:
You are a True Loser. :tdown:

You neeeeeeeeed a life!!!!!!
god bless you dicksh*t.

[83blue]

Nice!

All good points, MD does get it and I'm not even a woman hater.

I do agree that not all women are like that though. They are those rare ones that us men are looking for.

[natasha]

oh my god, oh my god, oh my god!
I don't even know where to start..

I think that when i say this, i'm talkin on the behalf of aaaallll the girls here - you are one sexist bitch!!.. how's that for a start?

seriously, eveyone's saying that your attitude reflects how you've been hurt in the past..
you've been screwed by an inconsiderate "female"..
how does that make all of us whores?

you need to open your eyes wide and REALIZE that just because that you've been hurt, that doesnt mean that you can go and judge every female there is in an insulting way...!

and like "cherryxlips" said -
NOT EVERY GIRL WANTS MONEY..
NOT EVERY GIRL WANTS KIDS..
NOT EVER GIRL WANTS A GOOD LOOKING GUY!!

You need to write that on your face so every time you look at your dicksh"T face in the mirror you'll realize that you're wrong.. that's right.. for once deal with it.. your wrong!!

oh and get a life cause obviously you don't have one..

[83blue]

Why is it sometimes girls reply with "Oh get a life because obviously you don't have one" -- relevant when he/she might be replying from work.

And isn't it hypocritical, i mean, you're posting here yourselves and try to put him/her on a lower level.

Just wondering.

[Darkmagus]

Wake up miss direction obviously you believe in morality and are thus outraged by what's going on. In the real world only fools pay anything more than lip service to morality.

Happy dating everybody.

[Ivy]

What's the point in arguing?

We're stubborn. He's stubborn.

His way of life is not of concern so who gives a $hit anymore.......besides, he claims to be very "humble" in person.

[reignman]

Very entertaining to say the least.
It's been march since anyone has replied to this message, and there is so much that I would like to reply to. However it would take to long and I feel people rather not read and just generalize anyway. :rolleyes:

I will just out of bordem go over this statement.

It's pretty basic male psychology. Most men feel threatened by a woman who is smarter/stronger/more successful/whatever than he is. It's been covered in more sitcoms than I'd care to count. Not much to discuss. Personally I like a woman with depth if I intend to get into a real relationship, I can't say I've ever met one that I felt threatened by in any sense.

Um most men are not threatend by women who would consider themselves "smarter" than a man (or any human being for that matter).

I mean really that sounds really egotistical and concieted, why would any person want to mate with an a$$hole like that is so beyond me (Male or female).

Secondly I think that question answers itself really, I mean a person with a head that big wouldn't mearly date any old regular person that seems nice and caring, ect; would they?

According to women whom I have spoken to and feel that way are people who believe they are worth more than the average joe can supply them with. Meaning if he isn't making atleast as much or more than they are, he isn't needed and is treated like a sub human being. They have this pretty sh*tty aura about them like a stuck up rockstar or something.

They make their own relationship problems and shouldn't blame anybody, but the mirror they look into.

[Darkmagus]

look obviously if there is a bell curve distribution there is a certain population that is highly in demand and a certain segment of the population that nobody would want to date. Normally the latter group is just excluded and no one hears from them, however on the internet these people can speak just as loudly as the rest of the population. Miss Direction could be a humble person in real life and seethe from not being wanted, he probably then rages on this board.

We could do the human thing and ignore him or do the ethical thing and comfort him.

Miss Direction this is for you:

The world is tough and it ain't fair, we ain't all equal so find your own niche in life and be happy you aren't being tortured to death in some shady part of the world.

that's the best i can do

c'est la vie

[Antonio]

Weed!!!!! :eek2: Who's got weed????? Can I get some???? :partier:

[Miss Direction]

Ohh...did Darkmagnus get some sand in his vagina?

Obviously we have somebody here that doesn't "get it".

And on top of it, we have natasha who cheats on her boyfriend and "expects" him to take her back. If he didn't, it was all "his fault" that she just found herself with somebody else. Uh-huh....sure. I'm suppose to take advice from somebody that doesn't even comprehend or understand the true meaning of commitment. Nice. Now their going to get married...wow, talk about insecurity and the "my pussy is the best in the land" syndrome. We all can't wait to see how long that one last. LOL!

And blondeisdumb....how's your drama craving going? Any progress with the man that you just think "it's got to be" that your feelings MUST be returned. Let's see....you and a guy you TOTALLY care about (and him too about you supposively) just "go your seperate ways", but wait....you were together too right? And you just "lost touch". LOL!

Having people that aren't experienced in relationships trying to show those who are what's wrong and right....keep the jokes coming.

[Ivy]

You know this by now, Miss Direction.....it's not your advice or point of view that is constantly being "attacked".

It's your delivery of the message.

Just making sure you know.

[Darkmagus]

huh? :confused:

[Chance]

I think that it is very easy to judge others even if we know we should not. I had a boyfriend cheat on me with a skinny blonde girl once when I was younger, and for the longest time I was wary of both skinny girls and blondes! :) It is just normal, when you are hurt or bitter to label things as "all" or even "most". I for one do not live my life the way it is assumed here. I do not put down other women, I am not a gold digger, and I am honestly looking for what I say I am looking for. I am not rare. Most of the women I meet and maintain friendships with are the same...

Chance
chancesplaygrounddotcom

[83blue]

huh? :confused:


Yeah, you proved Miss Direction's point.

[chicagurl]

WoW reading through threads and I found "miss direction's" ( our gay man of the board) plea for reading his moronic and oh so pointless thread.

WHY on earth was that last post so long?
don't you get it that people don't want to read such loooooooong posts..especially when you are getting no point across. :sleeping:
You are a True Loser. :tdown:

You neeeeeeeeed a life!!!!!!
god bless you dicksh*t.

you my friend are indeed what makes women turn into evil femi nazi creatures in the first place

but! it doesn't matter to me I am a christian and Focus on God more than anybody else in the heaven & earth but you are what makes women not care about a guy and just play him oh and for the record

a guy can have options too I don't care! Shocking I know but whatever as i hardly come on here but I can't sleep so this is some good & entertaining reading awesome really! ( christians do date wellll some of them still date ) if i showed up with mr bad boy my dad would not like it & I have alot of respect for him and myself so yeah Yay for nice christian Guys! & only them!

now that doesn't mean other guys aren't attractive but I will not date them because that would be leading them on in the bible you are not supposed to be "unequally yoked together" meaning date christian guys only sooo yeah obviously don't believe in premartial sex or rather partaking of it

I know many a christian who won't even kiss until they are married now in my opinion that is crazy but whatever they can think what they want!

but anyways I love God the most & He treats me well in return & i don't mean i don't go through hard times I am just saying that God blesses me and supplies my needs if i date God will help me/ not automatically but help & aide me to find the right person to marry I believe God knows more than man or woman anyways

no one is perfect but the guy I marry will be perfect for me I want God's will not my will or anyone elses will wow it is 4:15 am already I should go to bed but just a tad bit longer I am not completely tired yet

anyways yes & my treasures are in heaven

okay I think i am done but just so you know that is my beliefs & I am a born again christian girl and proud of it

oh and I am confused on this one

i am a girl and I hate the game
& I would ask a guy out but there are 2 different kinds of guys the ones like you who want girls to work in order to get them

and guys who would be insulted if I ever tried to ask them out,pay for dinner, call them first or whatever

how in the world is one supposed to know who is which male or female

i don't expect guys to just know that they are suppose to be the ones asking me out or not

and vice versa but now it is ruined for me because I have been hearing 2 things to not ask guys out & yes you should guys actually love it and it depends on the person any clues ?!?! :lol: because I am throughly disgusted with the whole human race & disgusted at myself THERE HAS TO BE A BETTER WAY!

ahhh & plus I cannot sleep anyways so why not try to get dating advice lol and I am dwelling deeply on everything trying to sort it out but meh it seems to be that all is lost lol

and how should one solve these problems that you post about anyways also? again just dwelling on these things & pondering how come there is not a better system because for crying out loud it is 2005 almost 2006 so I should hope someone will come up with something soon! okay good night and I may or maynot be back so if you do reply you might wanna wait a little because it is alot of typing and your hands get sore and ahhh believe me I know :lol:

[HappyEndingNot]

Well I have to say Miss Direction is right. I just ended a relationship where I was treated so well. It was my first relationship ever, and I always thought that I wouldn't be one of those women Miss Direction was talking about, but I guess it turns out I am. Wow.

[Ivy]

ehhh, what? if you were treated so well, what was the problem again?

[arutha]

Well I got bored reading the thread after the third page, but...

The first post may have been worded bitterly, but I agree with it. Despite what they say, the only thing women want nice guys for is to have someone to b*tch to about the bad boys they go out with.

[reignman]

ehhh, what? if you were treated so well, what was the problem again?


They want drama in their life that's the problem...

Having a respectful relationship is boring to girls until they turn a certain age and grow up then they want a family and settle down with a house and a dog, ect.

But by that time good men are tierd of being sloppy seconds and it's too late.

[Ivy]

Sloppy seconds... uh huh. Because most of us only date one person our whole lives... Instead of being bitter sounding, how about be glad you're not with a girl that is immature and thrives on drama??

Guys with this attitude always talk about how girls go after the "bad boys".....yet look at yourselves. If you're whining about so many girls being "immature", ect, ect, then you're going after the "bad girl" which makes you no better.

[reignman]

Same old typical response with you little girls :rolleyes:

Really I don't know why I expected anything else. Blame everyone else but don't acknowledge your faults at all.

People like you keep the cycle going then want to ask silly questions later on down the line like "Where all the good men at".

No one goes after a bad girl, matter of fact most of us stay away from so called bad girls, but some things aren't what they always seem. Whining ah no I call it venting something you women seem to do a lot, but it doesn't matter when you do it.

Like I said nobody wants to be there sloppy seconds when they want to settle down now and start crying ain't no good men in the world cause hypothetically speaking if there wasn't then why was there no problem when you thought your stuff was in so much demand?

[Ivy]

Genius, some guys aren't "what they seem" either. My point to you is, both genders have their faults. You talk about girls not being able to aknowledge their faults.....what about you? Are you just so perfect? Are some of you guys that much of a pu$$y that you think your a victim of women's bad and stupid ways when you get hurt by one? Please....let's grow the f*ck up here.

You got girls who have been with an a$$hole of a guy and actually learned from it. Then you got girls who don't learn from it and stay with him or keep dating more losers. You also got girls who say one thing one day, and the next say and do another. There, how about that for female faults that supposively aren't admitted to?

Now your turn. You're so mature and so much of a man, tell me your gender's imperfections. They're probably similar.

[arutha]

Our biggest imperfection is we put too much value on women.. The imagination goes wild, which puts a lot of stress on any interaction.

Other than that, we're perfect. :D Apart from the egos. :P

But hey, whats this thread about? Men or women? There you go trying to change the topic and distract us.

[reignman]

Your really a f*cking moron aren't you? I never said guys don't have their faults I said little girls like you have their heads to far up their own asses to realize they are part of the problem as well, instead of saying some bullsh*t like they are the best things to hit this planet besides a loaf of bread.


You telling me to grow the f*ck up when your the one going on a hissy fit like a 13 year old who just got your barbie taken away from you? Yeah using 4 letter words to round out your already small vocabulary is so grown up Dip sh*t. How about you take some of your own advice and listen before you stick you foot in your mouth like you already did.

Why your the wise one I'm sure your already up on our flaws, so you can make up your own rants and annoying ongoing b*tching with foul mouth toilet bowl language you seem so fond of. you don't need me to do if for you.

[Ivy]

Your really a f*cking moron aren't you? I never said guys don't have their faults I said little girls like you have their heads to far up their own asses to realize they are part of the problem as well, instead of saying some bullsh*t like they are the best things to hit this planet besides a loaf of bread.


You telling me to grow the f*ck up when your the one going on a hissy fit like a 13 year old who just got your barbie taken away from you? Yeah using 4 letter words to round out your already small vocabulary is so grown up Dip sh*t. How about you take some of your own advice and listen before you stick you foot in your mouth like you already did.

Why your the wise one I'm sure your already up on our flaws, so you can make up your own rants and annoying ongoing b*tching with foul mouth toilet bowl language you seem so fond of. you don't need me to do if for you.

LOL

First, learn your grammar. Then, learn the meaning of hypocrite.

Also, I'd love to see how I stuck my foot in my mouth. I said CLEARLY how some girls are. I also did not ever call you directly any names. I said some need to grow the f*ck up and how some girls have dated a$$hole guys. Wow, big deal. Where did I call *YOU* a name?

Re-read that more carefully before you tell me that I'm acting like a girl that got her Barbie taken away. Although I must say it was a clever little insult....haha Girl that got her Barbie taken away. That's funny. Too bad I play with cars instead.

[reignman]

LOL

First, learn your grammar. Then, learn the meaning of hypocrite.

Also, I'd love to see how I stuck my foot in my mouth. I said CLEARLY how some girls are. I also did not ever call you directly any names. I said some need to grow the f*ck up and how some girls have dated a$$hole guys. Wow, big deal. Where did I call *YOU* a name?

Re-read that more carefully before you tell me that I'm acting like a girl that got her Barbie taken away. Although I must say it was a clever little insult....haha Girl that got her Barbie taken away. That's funny. Too bad I play with cars instead.


That's funny you telling me about grammar, since when is aknowledge a word? :lol: You want me to show it to you? You talk about girls not being able to aknowledge their faults Taste that foot yet? Second of all I do know the meaning of hypocrite (a person who professes beliefs and opinions that he or she does not hold in order to conceal his or her real feelings or motives). Do you know what it means?

First of all you scream about me whining when all you did was go on a 5th grade tantrum, yeah you stuck your foot in your mouth alright. How the hell are you going to talk about grammar when you don't even know which punctuation mark to use in a sentence? I wasn't going to go there cause this ain't english class and I ain't writing an essay, but since you want to take it there then here we go. Next when your 2 word vocabulary sounds like S**t F**k and the other, you should really think about buying you some class.

You did not call me any names? Ok lets go back down memory lane shall we?

let's grow the f*ck up here

That's a insult; Look that word up.
Clearly you are talking to me; Try again. No plural in that sentence what so ever. You play with cars good for you; if that was supposed to be a comeback telling me off, then I'm going to have to give that a negative. :tdown:

[amazingjoan]

that same blood sucking leech you were pertaining to has the same gender as the person who gave birth to you probably ages ago. i tried going to webdatedotcom some guys might have been pigs as you said we describe them but were all equals there gold digging ladies (if you put it that way) for rich old men and perverted men to college girls who are trying to look for decent dates. good thing a lot of them get successful or they might end up as bitter as you.

[amazingjoan]

[QUOTE=Miss Direction]It doesn't matter, your response was ill-stated and full of loopholes.

There was nothing concrete in it other than an opinion. An opinion that wasn't right.[QUOTE]

first time for everything alright.. first time i heard an idea such as a "not right" opinion...

Ok people! (whoever feels like posting here) be sure that what you say doesn't have any "loop holes" on it or you will be accused of having a WRONG opinion...


just give him his peace ok? say the same thing:
"women are blood sucking gold diggers.."

[hannaz]

women are not that at all.. u should try to talk to other women and girls about this and get a more 'clearer' view and perspective.. i know a lot of mature women at webdatedotcom who can really help you.. ;)

stay chilled!

[vanessabg]

[QUOTE=hannaz;42043]women are not that at all.. u should try to talk to other women and girls about this and get a more 'clearer' view and perspective.. i know a lot of mature women at webdatedotcom who can really help you.. ;)

stay chilled![QUOTE]
I agree to "hannaz" here.