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Pooky Monster
02-11-2005, 05:10 PM
Hi,

I was wondering if you can help me. I am an extremely bashful/shy guy in his early 30s who can't seem to approach women or look them in the eye. I get extremely nervous around women. :blush: There is this one girl who I see on the bus a few days a week and I am beginning to get the feeling that she may be flirting with me or showing me signs of interest. The only thing is, I am not an attractive guy and she is absolutely gorgeous.

Whenever I see her coming onto the bus I never look at her, but there was this one time when she sat in a seat next to me and she started brushing her hair. I noticed it because I never see her doing this when she doesn't sit near me. She's done this a few times but only when she near me. I am not sure if I am hoping she's flirting with me or if she actually is.

A few weeks ago was when I noticed that something may be up. I was sitting in my seat and she sat right in front of me. She leaned her seat back and then she started brushing her hair. She also turned to look behind her at me a couple of times - like she'll turn around and look around before she looks at me. Does this sound like someone who's showing a sign of interest, or am I delusional? I am definitely a familiar face because we have rode on the same bus for well over a year now. There have been several times when I have an empty seat next to me available, but she has never sat next to me, which is why I think I am delusional. I really want to talk t her, but the bus is a quiet place and I don't want to come off like some creep trying to get a phone number or something. Thanks.

kk2004
02-11-2005, 06:50 PM
Just go for it, damn that, what do you have to lose, i live in nyc where u NEVER see the same person on thebus which makes pickin up girls onthe bus hard its not fun. just ask for directions or better yet "hi excuse me does this bus go to such an such street" she'll says yes cuz pick a street ahead of ur stop and if she says 'oh i dont know" "oh u dont, I usually get off at so and so street, I wish this bus serivce wasnt so slow" everybody hates the bus service so she is gonna relate to it. then say "Iv'e seen you a couple of times on this bus do u take this route often" then its up to u. guys comment on the advice if it was gud

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reignman
02-12-2005, 08:26 AM
I don't know dude, the bus thing is kinda sketchy, for one reason I just wouldn't ask a girl out in a public place like that.

Women are not thinking about hookup's on busses, because she most likely is just trying to hurry up and get to work, or school, or something.

Another reason I wouldn't ask on the bus is because she is going to be really embarrased and weirded out by you trying to ask her out on a bus full of crowded people. She is going to be like I barely know this guy, and he is going to ask me to date him on a bus .

She might get a attitude because you don't have a car (I know hypocritical isn't it).

Alot of girls stare at people, they do it to me They look over their shoulder when they sit in front of me, and look at me. I just look back at em and ignore it.