Pooky Monster
02-11-2005, 05:10 PM
Hi,
I was wondering if you can help me. I am an extremely bashful/shy guy in his early 30s who can't seem to approach women or look them in the eye. I get extremely nervous around women. :blush: There is this one girl who I see on the bus a few days a week and I am beginning to get the feeling that she may be flirting with me or showing me signs of interest. The only thing is, I am not an attractive guy and she is absolutely gorgeous.
Whenever I see her coming onto the bus I never look at her, but there was this one time when she sat in a seat next to me and she started brushing her hair. I noticed it because I never see her doing this when she doesn't sit near me. She's done this a few times but only when she near me. I am not sure if I am hoping she's flirting with me or if she actually is.
A few weeks ago was when I noticed that something may be up. I was sitting in my seat and she sat right in front of me. She leaned her seat back and then she started brushing her hair. She also turned to look behind her at me a couple of times - like she'll turn around and look around before she looks at me. Does this sound like someone who's showing a sign of interest, or am I delusional? I am definitely a familiar face because we have rode on the same bus for well over a year now. There have been several times when I have an empty seat next to me available, but she has never sat next to me, which is why I think I am delusional. I really want to talk t her, but the bus is a quiet place and I don't want to come off like some creep trying to get a phone number or something. Thanks.
I was wondering if you can help me. I am an extremely bashful/shy guy in his early 30s who can't seem to approach women or look them in the eye. I get extremely nervous around women. :blush: There is this one girl who I see on the bus a few days a week and I am beginning to get the feeling that she may be flirting with me or showing me signs of interest. The only thing is, I am not an attractive guy and she is absolutely gorgeous.
Whenever I see her coming onto the bus I never look at her, but there was this one time when she sat in a seat next to me and she started brushing her hair. I noticed it because I never see her doing this when she doesn't sit near me. She's done this a few times but only when she near me. I am not sure if I am hoping she's flirting with me or if she actually is.
A few weeks ago was when I noticed that something may be up. I was sitting in my seat and she sat right in front of me. She leaned her seat back and then she started brushing her hair. She also turned to look behind her at me a couple of times - like she'll turn around and look around before she looks at me. Does this sound like someone who's showing a sign of interest, or am I delusional? I am definitely a familiar face because we have rode on the same bus for well over a year now. There have been several times when I have an empty seat next to me available, but she has never sat next to me, which is why I think I am delusional. I really want to talk t her, but the bus is a quiet place and I don't want to come off like some creep trying to get a phone number or something. Thanks.