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Fireangel
02-09-2005, 07:26 PM
About six months ago I met a guy in the gym, he approached me and looked all shy and blushed and stuff. He was very hiperactive and happy. After that day, he went to the gym with a friend and I felt a weird casanova vibe going on so I stopped talking to him. He didn't go after me, he just went away. After that day, he went to the gym and I didn't even look at him. I stopped seeing him for about six months and suddenly I started thinking about him again, because one of my friends told me he saw him in a wedding I was meant to go to, but I couldn't cause I got sick. I was informed he had a bar. Therefore, I planned with my friends to go to that bar. Anyways, it was me with other 16 men friends and two girl friends..the waiter gave us a table and like we were many they had to change us, and while they were changing us..he came up to me and said hi, I said hi to him..he asked me if I remembered who he was and I made as if I was trying to remember cause I didn't want to sound obvious and stalkery you kno? he then said "oh I guess you don't remember me ", so I made as if I tried to remember and said " yes ", he asked me " from where? ", I told him that I met him at the gym and he said yes..He noticed that I had a haircut (I used to have my hair long and I cut it ), I told him I had cut my hair about a month ago, and then asked him what he was doing in there...He told me he was the owner in a proud way, and I told him that was absolutely great..he the asked me " didn't you already know ? " and I was like " nope, but it is awesome "....he then told me to be comfortable, that they were already going to change me for another table and that's it. So I sat down, and besides he is the dj of his own place so...while I was talking to my friends, he kept on looking and looking at me. After most of my friends left, I just stood there with two friends just chatting you know?, one of them left and another one went to the bathroom so I grabbed my cellphone and I saw this guy going out..My friend then told me if I wanted to leave because I already had to go home and I said yes..we asked for him to say goodbye and he just left..He didn't even look at me, said bye ..Nothing, what's the deal? Oprah Winphrey had this show in which things like this say " he's just not interested " did you watch it?? Do you think this is a case like that??

picadilly
02-13-2005, 04:45 PM
hi! maybe you should just wait till another meeting. he could be shy about approaching you to ask you for your number or to ask you out when there were people around you :-)

Smitty
02-13-2005, 05:11 PM
I think he may have thought your not interested in him...like when you didn't remember him. I know you said you did it to sound like you werent being a stalker....But say you did say "Oh, I remember you, you were so and so". It may have left a good impression on his part.

Just next time you see him...show him your interested