dancingmsg
02-09-2005, 10:40 AM
Hello there,
First time being here. It is a great place. I don't have much experiences with girls. So you help would be reatly appreciated.
Here is the story. I found that I really like this girl at my work. We don't talk too much since we are not on the same floor although we work in the the same unit.
She is being very nice to me (she is nice to everybody I have to say), smiling all the time, exchange eye contacts with me. Since I heard that she has a BF, I kind of avoid the idea of asking her out. But one night we just went out with couple of people at work and had drinks. I tried to talk to her. She told me that she plays video game a lot. And she is living with her parents to lower the living expenses.
I was wondering is it possible that she is not with her BF anymore. I don't think that many girls would stay their parents house while they are having a relationship with BF, right?
I told her that she helped me a lot at work (maybe a bad excuse), I'd like to buy her a drink. She started saying "You don't have to". I pushed it a little bit saying "I want to". She goes "Next time, Next time". Repeated twice.
What does this "Next time" mean? Is this "Next time" a turn off sign for me or just a "next time"?
Then this Monday, I sort of started an email conversation with her since i am so shy to talk to her face to face.
I asked her whether she watched Super Bowl last night and she said she only watched 5 minutes of Paul show. Then I asked if she played video game again she said yes. And told me the counter of her game says she's been playing that game for 72hrs in total and said she realise she needs to get out more. After that I asked what do you do besides game. She said: "Ummmm, Work here? hahahaha" Then she went on telling me she likes reading books, surfing internet etc. She also asked me "what about you?"
What do you guys think? Is she interested in me or just being nice? She never mentioned anything about her boyfriend. Can I take this as a good sign?
Although I did not ask her out, we were about going out with people at work soon. I am wondering should I wait till then see if there is any more signals coming out or should I take the chance ask her out now?
Thanks a lot
First time being here. It is a great place. I don't have much experiences with girls. So you help would be reatly appreciated.
Here is the story. I found that I really like this girl at my work. We don't talk too much since we are not on the same floor although we work in the the same unit.
She is being very nice to me (she is nice to everybody I have to say), smiling all the time, exchange eye contacts with me. Since I heard that she has a BF, I kind of avoid the idea of asking her out. But one night we just went out with couple of people at work and had drinks. I tried to talk to her. She told me that she plays video game a lot. And she is living with her parents to lower the living expenses.
I was wondering is it possible that she is not with her BF anymore. I don't think that many girls would stay their parents house while they are having a relationship with BF, right?
I told her that she helped me a lot at work (maybe a bad excuse), I'd like to buy her a drink. She started saying "You don't have to". I pushed it a little bit saying "I want to". She goes "Next time, Next time". Repeated twice.
What does this "Next time" mean? Is this "Next time" a turn off sign for me or just a "next time"?
Then this Monday, I sort of started an email conversation with her since i am so shy to talk to her face to face.
I asked her whether she watched Super Bowl last night and she said she only watched 5 minutes of Paul show. Then I asked if she played video game again she said yes. And told me the counter of her game says she's been playing that game for 72hrs in total and said she realise she needs to get out more. After that I asked what do you do besides game. She said: "Ummmm, Work here? hahahaha" Then she went on telling me she likes reading books, surfing internet etc. She also asked me "what about you?"
What do you guys think? Is she interested in me or just being nice? She never mentioned anything about her boyfriend. Can I take this as a good sign?
Although I did not ask her out, we were about going out with people at work soon. I am wondering should I wait till then see if there is any more signals coming out or should I take the chance ask her out now?
Thanks a lot