How Can I get him????

[sweetie87]

Theres this guy I really like, I go to school with, and I only see him for like an hour every other day? I was wondering how I could find out if he likes me or not, and how I could get him to like me?? I dont know if he'd ever date me because im not "popular" or whatever, and I dont think im pretty or anything but other people do, what should I do to get him to notice me and find out if he likes me? Does anyone also have any flirting tips?

[Kaisharga]

How do you get him to tell you if he likes you or not? Easy, ask him to dinner or something. Don't make it necessarily a date, maybe a lunch thing or whatever's real casual, but invite him to something, say you've wanted to talk to him for a bit. From his reactions in there, you'll be able to tell if he 'likes' you--if you can walk away saying 'that was fun' and mean it, then he likes you.

Not that that means if you don't think it was fun that he doesn't...there's a lot of ways to tell, and if he jokes around with you, and basically seems comfortable with you, then i'd say it's a good bet that he likes you too.

However, he might be in denial about feelings for you...
in which case, AngelFireDragon might be better able to help you...

--Kaisharga

[philcambron]

Well the easiest way to tell (being a guy...) is by his behavior. Guys make action to manifest their attention to women more than talk to them.

The guy could be shy or out going... If he is shy, he will look at you, and when he realise that you realise that he was lookin he will quickly look somewhere else, but it will be evident and might comeback after 2 secs just to see if you are still looking (sweet memories, lolllllllllll).

If he is out going or more comfortable with himself he will talk to you and ask you about anything. It will be obvious that you are the center of his concern if you are in a group of ppl and he tries constantly to talk to you, and doesn't care about the others... And their will be other stuff like doing things for you, meaningless things such as opening door, asking you if you want a gum, if you are hungry (it will be obvious that the just want to make YOU happy...).

Try to step back (in your head), and see what he is doing.

And there might be a problem with your attitude too. You have to feel comfortable with who you are and what you have... this is the hardest thing to learn during the teenager years... but as long as you believe that you aren't worth it... he will sense it if he is outgoing, and if he is shy, well he won't don't anything about it.

The only thing you can do is try to get to know him... yup, it is that simple. don'T just go at him for popularity or for meing cool. go for the guy that will make you feel more comfortable with who you are, that is the secret of long lasting relationship, but ppl like that are hard to find trust me ;)


Philippe

[philcambron]

I just wanted to add : you can do anything to someone for him/her to like you... a person will like you or won't like you when they get to know you.

and as much unfare as it is, there are some level of likelyness...

you can like to be around one person, like her looks, like his or her way of treating you but feel repulsive about getting to know the person better...

life is full of hopes, but also full of unfairness, lolllll but it is part of life.

Phil