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[Frustrated]

New to site and just wanted to say hi.
My wife and I have been married for over 20 years and I've
been searching the web for some ideas and suggestions on how
to revitalize what has become mundane in our sex life.
Suggestions always welcome.

Frustrated

[jidk]

We should live it to its fullest
Live, love, and grow
Give your heart away and let it show
Don't worry about tomorrow for what it may bring,
think about today and live it well
Tomorrow is another chance, another day
to do what is right
A day to correct the wrongs of yesterday
A day to make someone’s day bright
A day to spread kindness
most of all it is another day to love
take yesterday
and make today a better day tomorrow.

[Kaisharga]

sex life stuff, eh? There is that stuff that jidk mentioned, and that helps a lot, but it seems to me like you're asking for new things to...um...do. Think about these options:

Oral?
Anal?
Woman on top?
Man on top?
"Doggie Style?"
Sex toys? (they can be VERY much fun for both partners)
Food?
Doing it in a public place (public bathroom, fitting room, etc)?
S&M?
Bondage?
Shaving...down there?
Sensual Massage?
No-touch foreplay?
Dirty-talk?
Role Playing (which may or may not include 'dressing up' in your roles)?

As for positions, they are hardly describable here, so I recommend www.sexpositionsguide -- they have images and videos for download to help you figure out the positions, and LOTS of them. There's a fee to join, but it's very small, and believe me when I say it's quite worth it. Not to mention when you register they have a book-like file that they provide for download, they call it Masturbation Tips Guide, but it's so much more, and covers a lot of varieties on the basics.

--Kaisharga, sex-research fiend at large