i need help please

[juan1228]

well for starters im single and ive been single for the past 3 years and i think i will be sinlge for the rest of my life because im so afraid to talk to girls im afraid of rejection and i dont know what to do. i have one problem i met a girl at a club 2 weeks ago and she was attractive i was definitely interested in her and i beleive she was also interested in me because she kept staring at me, but i didnt have the guts to ask her anything so i sent my uncle to ask her if she was with anyone and she told him yes but that it wasnt serious and then she asked him why and he told her because my nephew over there is interested in you and she told him well tell him to come ask me himself so i approached her and gave her a smile and i shook her hand and introduced myself and she introduced herself and i proceded to ask her for her number and she told me that why don't i give her mine instead so i did and then she told me when can i call and i told her anytime but before the night was over i gave her a rose and she took it smilingly and then i waved her goodbye. its been 2 weeks and she still hasnt called. whats up with that my cousin knows her and he went to that club a week ago and i told him to ask her that why hasnt she called and she told him because she's been busy and that she hasnt had time but that she said that she will for sure call me on sunday because supposedly that was her day off , i've waited and she still hasn't called. why is she not being real why won't she say that she's not interested and that she doesn't want to call. i mean if she asked for my number she should at least use it.i mean she should be honest right. i need feedback on this please

[AresFury06]

You messed up bad twice from what I read. First, you sent your uncle to talk to her. That shows her fear and girls don't like wusses. You also failed the phone # "test". You actually gave her your # and expected her to call you. When she wouldn't give you her # and instead asked for yours, you should have just said "nevermind" or "I'm not fallin for that". After saying that, she would probably become more attracted to you since turning her down would show her strength. Then you should have continued chatting with her off and on. If you would have done that, you would have most likely walked out with her #. If I were you, I'd forget about this girl. Lose the stupid rejection fear. Newsflash for you, every guy gets turned down from time to time. So don't be afraid of it.

Next time you see a hott chick lookin at ya. Talk to her yourself. Don't be a wuss. Be confident and you won't lose.

[nathan]

Because you are in that state of mind I guess you don't see what everyone else does.

She is playing you along. Plain and simple. She wants you to be interested in her, I mean who doesn't want another person interested in them? The point is that if all else fails, then she might call you. But I wouldn't even bet on that. AresFury is right, you did indeed fail the phone number test. And you have to move on, chances are good that this girl has no intentions of ever seeing you again. I mean you did get your uncle to ask her out. Be strong, and confidence will come with time.

PS: One of my uncle's mates is an average bloke, but has so many women, so I ask my uncle how he does it, he said his mate told him that he asks out every girl he can, and by god he gets a lot of knockbacks but every now and then he gets a snag.

[jgkhjgkh]

ah poor guy...it happened to me and i never asked a never girl out ever again lol