My Ex Makes Me Wanna Jump Off A Bridge

[MissCarrie]

When I was a teenager I had an online relationship for 3 years. This guy somehow managed to wrap me around his fingers, and I fell deeply in love with him. We were best friends, and very very close. Eventually we grew apart. We fought a lot, and finally he ditched me. For the past year we've been working on our friendship, but it's just not happening. I might still love him to death, but frankly he pisses me off, and I truly want to kill him. I seriously hate him. I gave up so much because of him, like actual real life experiences. Will someone please make him disappear?

[AresFury06]

So you've never met this guy before? Thats an odd relationship. If all you do is talk to this guy online and you want him to go away, then stop talkin to him. Simple as that.

[dewshine]

Only you can make him dissappear.

Put his screenname on ignore, or change screennames for one. The fact that your relationship is online makes it VERY easy to make them go away actually.

Just do it.

[MissCarrie]

Yeah, I admit our relationship is weird, but we were 17 and things started happening that we didn't intend on happening. I was very upset with him last night. That post was quite immature, but I needed to vent. I really don't want him to disappear, but I wish my feelings for him would.

[dewshine]

My advice then...is to go date others. Spend time away from your computer, get a hobby or hang out with your friends.

Do things that don't involve him or thoughts of him. It's tough I know, but eventually things will feel better. Time heals all wounds.

[Miss Direction]

Actions speak louder than words.

You're a woman, you don't use "logic" to think, mostly emotions.

You don't want him out of you're life, but your brain is trying to "turn off" these feelings....when you know damn well that it can't be done.

Now....besides the fact that you LOVE the drama this is stirring up and you CAN NOT stand to be alone, this is really funny.

Grow up and blacklist him.....until you do that, you are nothing but a drama queen attention whore.

Why be friends with somebody that put you through hell?!

And women don't think they are crazy?

LOL!

More like...dumb?!

[nathan]

MissCarrie, it is a feeling that everyone goes through after being dumped, it is ironic how closely linked love and hate actually are though, isn't it. I suppose that is why love can be so dangerous. Anyway, you have to put a line through this guy, and as hard as it is, you have got to move on, and focus on the ultimate truth: this isn't the man you wanted to spend the rest of your life with, is it?