What does this mean?

[sfbayareaguy123]

I just found out about this place and it seems to be cool.
Here is my first post.

I met this girl in a group event [camping] and seemed to be nice and friendly. After the event we exchanged a few emails and then I sent her an email asking if she wanted to meet me for dinner on Sunday [I don't have her phone number]. I got a reply from her on Monday and she said that she would have loved to meet with me for dinner but she went to beach with friends and she did not get my email until Monday morning. She also gave me her work email and said if I want to contact her during weekends I can send email to that address as she will get it on her pager.
Then when we were chatting, she said she is not a good planner and said we can play by the ear and decide on that day and go for dinner.
But so far I have not heard anything from her about dinner plans.
Do I assume that she is not interested? Should I wait and bring it up later?

Thanks.:confused:

[Quickgal]

Well i think you should.

As a woman myself, i do need time to consider. I have a few past experience which is kind of similar to yours. You just need to give her some time.

Or perhaps she forgot about your dinner date? Try mailing her again about inviting her to another dinner date and wait for her response.

Whatever it is, dun pressure her for an immediate reply! tt'll will sure turn her off!

Well i have said wat i want to say. The rest is up to u! Good Luck!

[Kaisharga]

Keep your mind open, she may still want to be with you and just be a bit absent-minded; or she may be putting you off. Who knows? Not me, that's for sure. I'd say stick with it for a while, but if this kind of thing happens so often that you are stood up more often than you get to actually see her, I'd say talk to her (honestly and calmly and non-agressively) about your concerns. See if you can get to the bottom of the situation, and what's really happening--if things come up as she's almost never got a real certain way to contact her, put the work in her court; make her contact YOU. That way you can work that a little easier.

--Kaisharga

[kris]

Do you have her phone number yet? If you do, you should give her a call when you're pretty sure she's not doing anything. Talk to her for a bit to judge, and if she's just being lazy, tell her you're coming to pick her up and go get a drink, nothing big, just getting out of the house. She should at least go for it. If it works, bonus, if not, maybe nothing would have worked:)