BethelBabe03
11-23-2004, 08:56 PM
Ok, it's been frusterating me for quite some time and feel that i need advice from you guys.....so here's the story......
Ok, there's this guy(we'll call him "Mark") that i've been with since the beginning of September. We both were co-workers at pep boys, he started working there in the beginning of July 04'(i've been there since December 03'). He moved here from Florida to help support his brother....We didn't really talk to each other too much at first (we worked in differen't departments). In fact I didn't really care for him too much at first, but then around the middle of august he started growing on me. Now considering the fact that i'll be going into the Airforce sometime in the future, I didn't want to consider having a relationship of any kind except for just being friends......but obviously that part was in the back of my head cuz then in the beginning of september i was all of a sudden having this relationship with Mark(due to his part, he asked me out first)......but lets keep in mind that this relationship isn't supposed to be in any way serious, we both agreed upon that since i was goin' into the airforce and sometime in the future he was going back to florida......pretty much it started out us just going and hangin' out and then we started fooling around and doin' the :nod: (lol sorry it just reminded me of that), but then ever since we started doin' that stuff things started getting really rocky......he started becoming quite two-faced, in person he's all nice to me but when we text eachother or talk to eachother on the phone he doesn't seem too afraid to turn into the world's biggest jerk, we'd foughten about 5 times now :argue: and each time either me or him would say it was over, but then we always end up back together...and everytime it'd be on his part that we're back together again.....the last time we fought was in the middle of october and at that point I just decided that it would be the end of our little relationship, so I just stopped talking to him period and it worked for about a week and then suddenly he started talking to me and being all super nice(I swore he was on pot... :flippy: ) and he did that everyday for about a week and somehow his charm worked on me cuz i just decided to go to his house the day after holloween and he was all super nice to me but then things just started gettin' all rocky agian.....now fortunately he left for florida for vacation and has been gone since november 9th, and so we didn't talk to eachother for awhile and i didn't plan on him talking to me again until either sometime after thanksgiving when he got back or not at all period , but then i got an IM from him the 18th and i was really suprised.....and he was all saying that he didn't want me thinking that he was ignoring and we just talked about stuff, then he IM'd me again the 21st and he was all talking to me and asking me if i missed him and kept asking me if i was gonna go see him the same day he gets home from florida.....so i was all like, yeah, i might....but he wouldn't didn't take might for an answer and told me to say "i will", and that that was a better answer, and then he also told me to tell him that "Yes, i will be there that day you get home from florida", i was just like, yeah ok whatever, lol :rolleyes: then he mentioned that he was getting the house all to himself for three months ..........i dunno, i'm really confusing myself on this whole relationship, i'm just not too sure how to take this whole relationship just because since he was the first one to mention that he didn't want a serious relationship and didn't want me to get too attatched..... but then again if we're not serious then how come whenever we fight and say it's over, he always tries to win me back regardless of who says it's over? Would'nt he be able to just move on? Well give me your advice, it would be much appreciated
Ok, there's this guy(we'll call him "Mark") that i've been with since the beginning of September. We both were co-workers at pep boys, he started working there in the beginning of July 04'(i've been there since December 03'). He moved here from Florida to help support his brother....We didn't really talk to each other too much at first (we worked in differen't departments). In fact I didn't really care for him too much at first, but then around the middle of august he started growing on me. Now considering the fact that i'll be going into the Airforce sometime in the future, I didn't want to consider having a relationship of any kind except for just being friends......but obviously that part was in the back of my head cuz then in the beginning of september i was all of a sudden having this relationship with Mark(due to his part, he asked me out first)......but lets keep in mind that this relationship isn't supposed to be in any way serious, we both agreed upon that since i was goin' into the airforce and sometime in the future he was going back to florida......pretty much it started out us just going and hangin' out and then we started fooling around and doin' the :nod: (lol sorry it just reminded me of that), but then ever since we started doin' that stuff things started getting really rocky......he started becoming quite two-faced, in person he's all nice to me but when we text eachother or talk to eachother on the phone he doesn't seem too afraid to turn into the world's biggest jerk, we'd foughten about 5 times now :argue: and each time either me or him would say it was over, but then we always end up back together...and everytime it'd be on his part that we're back together again.....the last time we fought was in the middle of october and at that point I just decided that it would be the end of our little relationship, so I just stopped talking to him period and it worked for about a week and then suddenly he started talking to me and being all super nice(I swore he was on pot... :flippy: ) and he did that everyday for about a week and somehow his charm worked on me cuz i just decided to go to his house the day after holloween and he was all super nice to me but then things just started gettin' all rocky agian.....now fortunately he left for florida for vacation and has been gone since november 9th, and so we didn't talk to eachother for awhile and i didn't plan on him talking to me again until either sometime after thanksgiving when he got back or not at all period , but then i got an IM from him the 18th and i was really suprised.....and he was all saying that he didn't want me thinking that he was ignoring and we just talked about stuff, then he IM'd me again the 21st and he was all talking to me and asking me if i missed him and kept asking me if i was gonna go see him the same day he gets home from florida.....so i was all like, yeah, i might....but he wouldn't didn't take might for an answer and told me to say "i will", and that that was a better answer, and then he also told me to tell him that "Yes, i will be there that day you get home from florida", i was just like, yeah ok whatever, lol :rolleyes: then he mentioned that he was getting the house all to himself for three months ..........i dunno, i'm really confusing myself on this whole relationship, i'm just not too sure how to take this whole relationship just because since he was the first one to mention that he didn't want a serious relationship and didn't want me to get too attatched..... but then again if we're not serious then how come whenever we fight and say it's over, he always tries to win me back regardless of who says it's over? Would'nt he be able to just move on? Well give me your advice, it would be much appreciated