she cheated

[briggs104]

well I need help, I love my ex-girl friend with everything I have. She broke up with ma about a month ago, she couldn't tell me why really but at the time it would have been in one ear and out the other. Through this fourm I fond out why, she had cheated on me on two seperate occasions and felt guilty. The main problem is that I can't stop loving her, now she says she loves me but doesn't know if she can be with me beacse she will always feel gulity.

I treated her like a pricess, all I won't to do be able to make her happy again.

What on earth should I do?

[MidnightBreeze]

You have to reassure her that you're not going to hold it against her (and carry it out). You have to let her know that you realize that this is just a one time thing that most relationships will go through. Also tell her that you know this will help "us" in that if "we" can get through this "together", then "we" can get through anything. Be sure to use those type of words. So that.... don't know how to explain it. It will just help in reassuring her and comforting her. I hope it works out for you.

[briggs104]

Unfortunately, the issue is more that she is not sure she is able to be with me again. She says she feels too guilty.

[Miss Direction]

>>>>>well I need help, I love my ex-girl friend with everything I have.

Sucks to be you.


>>>>>She broke up with ma about a month ago, she couldn't tell me why really but at the time it would have been in one ear and out the other.

Well....
No sherlock!
Probably because she didn't want to totally crush you.


>>>>>>Through this fourm I fond out why, she had cheated on me on two seperate occasions and felt guilty.

LOL!
Stupid frickin' women!
They cheat, but "don't know what happened...it was just there".

Of course she felt guilty, you didn't keep her in line. Way to go nancy-boy.


>>>>>The main problem is that I can't stop loving her, now she says she loves me but doesn't know if she can be with me beacse she will always feel gulity.

No...
It's because women don't THINK logically. They THINK with their FEELINGS. Newsflash man...she's feeding you the main feast in B-U-L-L CRAP. What she's basically telling you is she's a washed up hoebag that needs to be treated like .

You are looking to her for approval and she's turning away from that. She KNOWS what she did and what it's doing to YOU, yet....you continue to WANT her BACK. Launch this bitch and make her happy so she can go screw over another man.

Use your head.


>>>>I treated her like a pricess, all I won't to do be able to make her happy again.

That was your problem, you lost your balls. Women love to be treated like , they eat it up constantly. Being "nice" doesn't spark "attraction" in women.


>>>>>What on earth should I do?

Dump the hoe.

[nathan]

Briggs104,

It seems apparent you have some soul searching to do. Can you honestly say you can live with this girl for the rest of your life without ever wondering if she is doing something behind your back? Because, honestly, that is what love entails, complete and utter trust, can you honestly say you have that for her? Also, if she loved you so much, why on earth would she cheat on you?

This is a turning point, you must decide whether you are chewed up and spat out for the rest of your life. Because, I kid you not, crawling back to this girl after what she did, will no way change the way she treats you. You have to claim that power back, stand up and declare how you feel about what she did, and ask her what she is going to do about being unfaithful. She has the problem, not you.

Anyways, hope that helps, reply and tell us what you ended up doing.