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Pandora1980
10-22-2001, 12:02 AM
I met a guy this weekend...
I met some friends at a club, walked up started dancing, their very cute, :eek: single friend smiled and came over to dance near me, we did the whole girl thing- they moved around so I'd be near him, we danced and talked a little, he went to get a drink and dissappeared and we couldn't find him when we left...

Now the problem is- should I

a) get them to give him my number
b) tell them to get him to go to one friend's birthday party this weekend
c) wait until I see him again
d) get his number and call him?

What's a girl to do?:confused:
Cleo
10-24-2001, 12:42 AM
hi, Pandora! my pick is either b) or c) . b) is more you take control in your hands(know if and when you'll see him) . c) you gotta wait.... ??:confused: that's the concervative way. are you very concervative or can you handle his not (worst case) being w/you anymore at the B-day party?
artifact
10-24-2001, 04:39 AM
If I were in your shoes I'd pluck up the courage and go for d).:eek:

Why?
a) if he doesn't call you'll wonder way and maybe never find out
B) if he turns up and is not interested it could spoil your whole night
c) same as above

d) If you call him before you meet again you can find out if he's interested then you'll know where you stand, the choice of what to do will be yours.

Hope it helps.:)
Cleo
10-24-2001, 07:42 PM
yeah!! I actually like Artifact's answer better.:D
iain
10-25-2001, 05:11 AM
yeah d.thats what i would like,whats the worst that could happen? :)
Pandora1980
10-28-2001, 01:53 AM
Ok Screw this!! Turns out he tries to be a "playa". Therefore waste of my time... although I guess it would be a good question for next time...
Euridicye
10-28-2001, 01:15 AM
Hi Pandora1980,

How do you know that he is a player?
Pandora1980
11-03-2001, 08:47 PM
Well- my ex kinda knows him too- he said to "watch out for him" - yeah- he's not a good source, but another friend of mine said he's shady with women too. Last week we went to the same club- I broke my foot and he hooked up w/ another girl. From what I gather- he's more into getting with a different girl every weekend. I'll just use the advice for the next guy.