Need a guy's opinion

[cassie]

I need a guy's opinion on this one...

My ex broke up with me a while ago. It was pretty bad because I still was in love with him. Anyways, i've been trying to stay strong and move on. Now he emails lots and asks me what I am doing next year. We live apart and he's trying to find me a place near where he lives in his hometown. He also always wants to know what im doing & who im hanging out with. what gives?

[Aziz]

Hi cassie
Iv got a strange feeling that he wants to get back with you. Ask him why he's asking you 20 questions. oh by the way what was the reason he broke up with you in the first place?

[nyclawstudent]

I agree, it sounds like he wants to try to get back with you, but would also want more details before jumping to conclusions.

[cassie]

thanks for your replies. to give more details he asks what im doing for my birthday and he sends pictures through email. he also told me that he got two of the same books as a gift so he would save one for me.
he puts litte happy face faces in his emails as well. i think that he is trying to keep me in the background so in case he decides he wants me back. i also think this is unfair to me.

cassie

[Miss Direction]

Here's a hint....
Tell him NOT to contact you anymore.

You must still feel something for him if you're talking to him. Either that or you're an attention whore and need him to stroke your ego.

The more you talk to him, the more useless drama you pile on yourself. You are killing yourself at healing with every word you speak to him.

[nathan]

You don't need a guy's opinion. It's a both sexes thing. People, in general, always want to know if the grass is greener on the other side. And they also want to know, if it isn't, then great they can come back. You have to decide whether you want that. And to be honest, anyone that does that to another person isn't worth your time. Take control, and tell him that what his is doing is wrong. And take it from there.

Hope this helps.

OR

You can do what Miss Direction said, and tell him not to contact you, but that kind of stops everything, and the feeling of uncertainty is a tough one to deal with.