Racksman
10-25-2004, 02:59 PM
Hello everyone , i am new to the site ......
well here goes , it s a long one ...........
i meet this wonderful women from a chat site , at first we used to talk and talk and we got on like a house on fire , we could go on all night and more , the day finally came when we meet it each and thats when things changed at first it was 2 people who were great frds and now 2 people who really like each other , i asked her to dinner and we hit it off, i could be happier , we went on a few dates
( at this point i have to add that i am indian an so is she , it will make sense later) everything was fine , untill one day she decided to tell her parents about me , instead of not saying nothing. well her parents went trought the roof , they stopped her from seeing me , and her mother even made her swear on her life that she wouldnt see me agian , there i was happy as larry thinking everything was fine,untill she rang me crying her eyes out down the phone and told me what had happened, i couldnt believe my luck, we remained good frds still, but everytime we had a chance to see each other as jsut frds it would always be like it never changed , and e missed each other even more , then the day came when she decided to go back to university to do her masters, we had disscussed the possiblity of me visting and she wasnt to keen and then the next day she had slept on it and was dying for me to come and see her , so 1 morning i backed my bags and set off, and when i turned up, and it was a surprise vist , she was over the moon and couldnt be happier . i was theie 2 nights and i was the best , then the day came i had to leave , she was acting off with me not just thatr day but the night before that , but i put that down to her being upset i was goin, whe i got back that day , i didnt get a call from her , but i already knew she wasnt happy about the whole cahin of events , so the next day , i saved her the trouble and told her what she was thinking and i was right , she told me that 1 off the reason she wen tback to study was to get away from her parents , as all the grief they gave her when she was seeing me, made her ill, and she was happy , i love her too much to let her go through that again , so i called it off, but we are still frds, at the mo we aint speaking , as we need time to deal with this , i spoke to her on msm and that was hard not just on me , but it was difficult on her , you could tell, she even said she still wasnt ready to speak to , its been 3 weeks since this happened , i still love her dearly and i know she loves me, but she being the silent and strong one, is there anything i can do to change this situation ,if it isnt too late ? , also its killing me , its eating me up .... how do i deal wiith this :'(
well here goes , it s a long one ...........
i meet this wonderful women from a chat site , at first we used to talk and talk and we got on like a house on fire , we could go on all night and more , the day finally came when we meet it each and thats when things changed at first it was 2 people who were great frds and now 2 people who really like each other , i asked her to dinner and we hit it off, i could be happier , we went on a few dates
( at this point i have to add that i am indian an so is she , it will make sense later) everything was fine , untill one day she decided to tell her parents about me , instead of not saying nothing. well her parents went trought the roof , they stopped her from seeing me , and her mother even made her swear on her life that she wouldnt see me agian , there i was happy as larry thinking everything was fine,untill she rang me crying her eyes out down the phone and told me what had happened, i couldnt believe my luck, we remained good frds still, but everytime we had a chance to see each other as jsut frds it would always be like it never changed , and e missed each other even more , then the day came when she decided to go back to university to do her masters, we had disscussed the possiblity of me visting and she wasnt to keen and then the next day she had slept on it and was dying for me to come and see her , so 1 morning i backed my bags and set off, and when i turned up, and it was a surprise vist , she was over the moon and couldnt be happier . i was theie 2 nights and i was the best , then the day came i had to leave , she was acting off with me not just thatr day but the night before that , but i put that down to her being upset i was goin, whe i got back that day , i didnt get a call from her , but i already knew she wasnt happy about the whole cahin of events , so the next day , i saved her the trouble and told her what she was thinking and i was right , she told me that 1 off the reason she wen tback to study was to get away from her parents , as all the grief they gave her when she was seeing me, made her ill, and she was happy , i love her too much to let her go through that again , so i called it off, but we are still frds, at the mo we aint speaking , as we need time to deal with this , i spoke to her on msm and that was hard not just on me , but it was difficult on her , you could tell, she even said she still wasnt ready to speak to , its been 3 weeks since this happened , i still love her dearly and i know she loves me, but she being the silent and strong one, is there anything i can do to change this situation ,if it isnt too late ? , also its killing me , its eating me up .... how do i deal wiith this :'(