In need of some advice

[djwhitt03]

Hrmm. I've never done this, but I need help. I have this "friend", and she is pretty hot... Only problem is she wants me to be "hers". I am definitly not looking for any kind of relationship because I am in my prime years and looking to experience it to its fullest... I grew up with a gut in school but recently i grew like 6 inches and I look damn good if ide say so myself. I see females looking at me non stop whever i go and arent use to it... so the other day this girl asked me if we were togeather because we have been having sex kinda a lot lately and I was honest with her and told her I didnt need a relationship... only problem is this girl is in LOVE... she would do anything for me and I kinda like having her around... She stormed off when i told ehr that and I dont know if I should call her, move on, or just wait to see what happens... It's putting stress on my mind thinking about it and Im thinking about just moving on because if she can't relize I dont want a relationship and she keeps nagging at me, is it really worth it? any help?

[MidnightBreeze]

Damn man, ya f**ked it up already really. Can't blame you though, that's a tough situation. Seriously, what you need to do is try your absolute hardest to be friendly with her. Take her out with you to some sort of a social gathering, and be sure to have a friend there. Have fun, have maybe a few drinks, it's pretty likely that your friend and her will get to talking (be sure you give them a chance to). Try say that you have to go to the restroom. Don't say away too long though, dead giveaway that something isn't right, girls can sense this. DON'T blow her off though, you definately don't want her to spread stuff about you. Girls tend to do this even when they're not trying to.
~roCK

[littlebear]

yeah f**ked up is right
but if she is into tyou taking her to a socal thing with another one of your freinds wont work...trust me i got a friend that is way clingie to my older bro...he tried it and it didnt work if you like her as a freind get a gf but still call her and talk to her and let her know you just want to be freinds she will get over ( might takw awaile though)

[Spud]

well i think you should just start at the begining again, and ask her out. Talk to her more and she wont be thinking about what you said. Just be friendly and make it out that you just want to be friends, if not take it to the next step and make her yours.

Hope the advice helps.

[ct63]

if you don't want a relationship and she is in love with you then you need to let her go. You will do nothing but give her hope and break her heart. If she calls you then you can talk about it with her and if she comes back for more knowing you don't love her and knowing you don't want to have a relationship with her then its shame on her. If she is in love with you then she is vulnerable to you and easily used. If you use her for a good time knowing how she feels and what she hopes for then its shame on you. If you really do like her, let her go and spare her anymore pain and loss.