Flirting guy, wont notice me

[4amplefull]

To all ya guys out there who have once had a girl fall for u here is a question.

For every girl u just wanted as a friend and no more.. what could she have posibly done to make u like her more?

i cant figure out how to get a friends attention, they know i have a huge thing for them, and i know that they only count me as a friend. there is about a 4 year gap between us, and he once said that what why. I also believe that the distance will only remain an issue till i move. I like him a lot, he flirts with me.. wich he does with tons of girls, but he dosent act like he has any more further than friendship feelings fore me.

So how do i make him notice/want me?

He is as outgoing as me and not easy to scare off.. i havent yet and i dont think i can. Thanx! :)

[WayneBrady]

Well, since most guys mostly care about appearence when they pick a girlfriend, or like a girl, do you think your hot? If you do, then act like it. Dress in sexy stuff, flirt with the guy, sit on him, do stuff like that. I know I would love it if a fine girl sat on me, regardless on wether I knew her or not. In fact, thats how my friend got with his girlfriend. She didn't know my friend, they talked a little, then she sat on him, then they became boyfriend and girlfriend shortly afterwords. Sorry if this response is a little late.

[NHO3]

How close of friends are you? Most guys are so simple women can make them do anything. If you are close then you can get him into certain conversations that will make him tell you how you can make him like you more or date you. Flirting can work too but me and my close female friend flirt all the time and she sits in my lap and hug, dances, and does whatever else. In my case physical flirting wouldnt help. If my friend wanted me to like her in that way she would probably have to tell me or make a romantic or sexual advance towards me. Sometimes when men and women become friends barriers get put up to prevent us from forming romantic relationships so we can maintain the friendship. It can help to identify these barriers so that you can work around them to get the romance into the relationship.

[Febe144]

Oh i totallty agree with the last post. Talk to them and find out what kind of girl they like. ect.. im in a similar situation kind of. but i know that my best friend likes me and i like him. we are jsut trying to rfiugre out if we want to get into a relat rite now or wait a little bit.. figure out if its too soon or not :O hmm.. who knows. but yeah! talk to him. :mears:

[cloud]

Just pay more attention to him, like special kind of attention. Girls pay more attention to me, i pay more attention to them.