View Full Version : What should I do next?
bela24
10-13-2004, 11:24 AM
Finally I got the courage to approach the guy I like and talk to him! He was so nice to me, he never stopped smiling and we kept eye contact all the time, he asked hwere do I live, what´s my major, my age, etc, and of course I asked the same things to HIM=)Weve been making eye contact for the last month, ´he´s been paying attention to me everytime we get to see each other but he acted like he didnt notice me on campus. After I told him my name He said that now he knows how to tell the next time he sees me on campus with a huge smile=) He´s 2 years younger, will this turn him down? I really like him, and I want him to be looking forward to see me again, to think about me, and be interested in me, how can I do that within being to obvious? I will be friendly with him, but how can I let him now that I like him without being to obvious or look desperate? I think he´s interested in me, but I want to be sure about it, how can I tell if he´s interested in me? I was thinking about making pshysical contact in a subtle way everytime I see him, be friendly....I need help, help meeee pleaseeee!!!
Valdene
10-14-2004, 07:24 AM
First of all I would say, always look your very best. Be feminen, don't try to look like a slut or cheap. Maby try to do something different with your hair each day.
I would say keep on flirting, give him that spesial smile, keep eye contact for just a while longer than what needs be. I'm sure you can look in books or internet to find more flirting tecniques.
Maybe try to find out where he goes to over weekends and try to go there yourself with friends. Don't do this every weekend though.
Maybe ask him for his phone number but don't phone him, send him text messages.
Valdene
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bela24
10-14-2004, 11:44 AM
I´m starting to feel heartaches everytime I think about him, I don´t get to see him very often, that´s making me crazy, How can I get to be flirty, friendly and get to know him better if I never see him? I was thinking in being honest with him, and tell him that I would like to know him better, and since we never get to see each other on campus that we should exchange cellphone numbers, or e mails, I really like him, but I´m feeling desperate because in about two months and a half we will never see each other again if I dont do something, I think he is shy, and he wont make any move, or maybe he is not interested enough in me...=(
In the past I´ve been the one to make the first move and everytime turned out wrong, I don´t want to make the same mystakes, for example, when I liked a guy I always tried to be in the same places at the same time, be the one to approach him and start a conversation, But I dont want to that again, cause Im afraid that the guy I like now will feel uncomfortable, I want him to be interested in me not to be tired of seeing me everywhere,. As you can see, I´m not very clever about flirtin,and I´m running out of time, help me!! Shoul I be honest with him and tell him that I want to be his friend ?(and maybe something else, obviously I wont tell him this)
Heeeeeeeeelp please...again!!
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