Eye contact

[sparklingchicky]

well there is this guy that i know and i like him alot! well actually i think i'm in love with him as stupid as it may seem! well whenever we talk he keeps eyecontact for the almost whole time when its just us two talking whether it be 2 minutes or 1 hour. He looks straight at my eyes and we can keep the eye contact without it feeling awkward, strange or uncomfortable like eye contact does with alot of people. Do you think this is a major sign that we connect with each other? or what do you think about it?

We haven't been out on a date or anything, do you think i should ask him? if he didn't like me like that he wouldn't keep the eyecontact would he?

Thanks

[Phusion]

I'd say he likes you for sure... As long as the eye contact is meant purposely on his part.

Make a move if he's shy!

[sparklingchicky]

When we are around each other we are the opposite to being shy except for asking each other out. I can tell him anything even embarassing things! When we first met i think he hinted at me about going out but i didn't follow the lead or it didn't occur to me at the time as we had just started talking and it wasn't a good day.

Do you think there is something i can do to let him know how much i feel for him? Is there something i could do while he is staring at me to make it CLEAR that i have deep feelings about him?

Thanks

[Phusion]

Keep flirting until he gets the picture! If he's the kind of guy that has confidence, he'll make a move to ask you out. If you really want to be with him and you know he's just shy, then you may have to make a move on your own. Something like talking on the phone can make a big difference, and if all goes well and he likes you, he should ask you out. If he doesn't, the last thing you can do is ask him yourself.

Otherwise there's not much else to do.

[Justin000001]

I usually make eye contact with everyone I talk to, and I do notice that almost every one who I make eye contact with gets really weirded out by it for some reason, they usually get kinda nervous and figity, then their eyes move around a lot as if I'm trying to poke them out or something and they also stare at the ground a lot too.
What does this mean? Do people think I'm attracted to them, or are they just shy people, maybe a little unconfident with themselves or something like that?

[Willing]

I make it a point to make Eye contact with people now. But there are some that I've found it difficult to look into their eyes. If the two of you talk carelessly, without breaking eye contact, I think that's a definate connection. As far as taking it further, I say ask him out. Or at the very least, get closer to him. Even as a friend. Getting close is the best thing, after that things usually fall into place.

[Aziz]

well there is this guy that i know and i like him alot! well actually i think i'm in love with him as stupid as it may seem! well whenever we talk he keeps eyecontact for the almost whole time when its just us two talking whether it be 2 minutes or 1 hour. He looks straight at my eyes and we can keep the eye contact without it feeling awkward, strange or uncomfortable like eye contact does with alot of people. Do you think this is a major sign that we connect with each other? or what do you think about it?

We haven't been out on a date or anything, do you think i should ask him? if he didn't like me like that he wouldn't keep the eyecontact would he?

Thanks

Hi Sparkchick
Take it from me, eye contact is one of THE most important things when it comes to relationships! If the person was giving you the eye, and your'e ok with it, then by all means return it by giving him the eye. If he's interested which I'm sure he is he'll come up to you and make conversation. You can't go wrong with eye contact, you'll either know hes interested or not straight away!googd luck! :angel5: