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ice7990
10-12-2004, 08:49 AM
i really need a womans perspective on this one.

its been 7 years since they broke up and now she starts to develope feelings again for him. from everything that her friends have told me, he wont take care of her son as well as i did cause he is japanese. that she doesnt like dating japanese men and that her ex has been back in japan for over 7 now and prob changed alot since the time they were going out. when they were going out, she didnt have a child and now things will be very different.

if things dont work out and her son isnt happy or she can see how he has changed and remember that it was him that cheated on her and left her, will she think about the happiness that we had, the way i always made her feel special and how happy her son is with me. will she remember the love that was there and how much i still love her now. do these even come to play and do women realize that happiness when things dont work out?? wat im trying to ask is, will she come back to me when things dont work out or go looking for another. the thing i know about her is that she told me that isnt the type to go looking cause she has her son's happiness to worry about. wat do you ladies think???

l4linda
11-21-2004, 04:21 PM
About all you can do right now is make sure she knows you would want her back if it doesn't work out with him. Only time will tell what's gonna happen.

In the meantime, you shouldn't be pining away for her. Get your butt up and start moving on with your life.

Maybe you're not ready to date other women yet, that's fine - you can still hang out with friends and do the things you like and the things that make you happy.

If you continue to get up every day and live your life, everything will happen the way it should. Follow your life where it leads you, and you'll learn the ending of the story. There's no guarantees about anything, ya know? You just gotta learn to make peace with that if you want peace of mind.