need help

[confusedgirl]

I was seeing a guy for 6 months practically living together and I really did love him but one day we broke up...I thought I was strong enough to walk away and I did......
After about a month and a half I met another guy who is just awsome...everything any girl would want in a man. Gorgeous, smart, rich, sexy, wants kids, wants to get married etc...
However I cant get my ex out of my head and now all I do is get angry at my new man. and I feel awful.

My ex still contacts me and we see each other everynow and then...and I miss him so much.

He told me he is still in love with me...but hasnt suggested getting back to gether.

I want to give the new guy everything he wants but I am really struggling with it...

How do I get over the ex and move on ??? and give the new guy the girlfriend he deserves?

Please help

[NHO3]

In my experience its best to dissconnect yourself from the ex until you get over him. In the future you can become friends or continue to be friends but until your heart heals complete seperation from the person is required. Very good communication is also required with the ex and the new BF. They both need to understand what is going on. The Ex needs to know that you can't be happy right now if he keeps calling and see you and that you need time to yourself. The new BF needs to know what you are going through if he is really important. If its not serious with the new guy yet then it would probably be best to be single for a little while, but that depends on your personality type. If you tell the new guy about how you feel in relation to the ex you will have to be careful because men tend to think its about them when its really about you. Anyway thats my opinion :)

[JulianSantis]

Your ex has given you a huge clue...watch out and listen... he loves you but doesn't suggest getting back together with you. This is a very non-commital attitude. Does he know about the new boyfriend? If he does this guy is just playing and wants his ego satisfied that you are not leaving him for the other guy...and that's all.... Why didn't he tell you he loved you before the new boyfriend appeared? If he really wanted you for real, he would immediately suggest something solid afraid he might lose you. But he don't.... Uhmmm... Put it to the test. This is your chance. Tell your ex that your new boyfriend wants kids and all... and ask him if he's willing to do the same. You'll know for sure where he stands. Don't let him give you the run around... after that, make your decision. Good Luck. Hint: Hey did you say the new boyfriend is rich? (Just kidding)