s&m

[iain]

my girls in to s&m but im not as keen as her,should i let her carry on with men she finds on the net or call it a day?

[Kaisharga]

I don't really think this is a question of 'should you LET her do it,' because she's likely going to do it whether you want her to or not. The best thing is to say something to let her know that it's okay that she likes that kinda stuff, but you don't--if you're willing to do that for her on a very occasional basis, tell her so; otherwise, I'd suggest you recommend she keep it restricted to the pornography and out of the rest of her life. No matter what your feelings are, she has that urge and desire, and she needs to have it satisfied somehow, in some fashion, sometime. And if you put a big STOP sign on that, she's gonna just walk around and out.

--Kaisharga