How do I make a guy melt?

[Athena]

My guy friend who is always doing sweet things for me. I want to do something special for him. Do you have any suggestions? (We are not a couple yet and havent been going out long, so nothing too forward)

Thanx :)

[Chris]

How about giving him some love cards? Or even some surprise pecks on the cheeks? I bet he will be totally shocked. ;)

[Tyler]

try guy's staple food.

1. Sex
2. Beer

:)

[Acid Burn]

Just write him a love letter.

[Zoe]

I agree giving a surpise peck on his lip/check will do the job.:kiss2:
:lman:

[LearnedLessons]

How about his favorite beer over some nude photos?

[katty]

Dress fabulously and have a candle-light dinner together. Have light music and hug each other often and kissing each other too. ;)

[fallen angel]

serve him beer naked when watching football...
and let him eat cheetos off your breasts...
...that aught to do it.:devil:

[Kaisharga]

Bah. Away with all of you and your breasts, i say.

What you can really do to get a guy to melt is be close, but not intrusive. Sit down and watch TV together, and lean up against him. Put your arm around him. Lay your head on his shoulder. Or maybe his chest, if you got the right angle for that. Hugs are great. The longer you can make them (comfortably), the better. A few quick kisses are good too, if you're really close you can french kiss him--keep that kiss going as long as you both can. Make sure it's passionate, and not measured, tho! If you're not at that level yet, just quick pecks on the cheek will do just fine.

For REALLY subtle things to do, do the things that lovers do. Comb through his hair with your fingers. Rub his shoulders a little. Hold hands. If you're not close enough to even get away with these, try hiding them. Touch his face because 'there's a little dusty thing in your hair,' or 'a little bit of food stain on your cheek.' Touch him every chance you get. Believe me, it works.

--Kaisharga

[Pandora1980]

Make him cookies- guys love that.
Send him an e-card- not as much trouble and therefore not as forward as a real card- just send one that says you hope he has a happy day or one of those weird holidays at bluemountain
Leave a not under the windshield wiper of his car wishing him a good day- so that when he gets in his car to go to work or school that's the first thing he sees for the day- he'll smile and think it's sweet and have a happy day.
Don't tell the FBI this- but tape a movie you know he'd like and give it to him.
Take his cues- if he says his back hurts- give him a massage. If he says he had a bad day- arrange to do something that he really likes- make him dinner. If he has something he's dreading doing- go with him.
If you want to keep it low key- keep it cheap- but creative. He'll think you're sweet but hopefully not obsessive (like love cards).

[Kaisharga]

Mmmmm, cookies.

*runs back into the shadows*

--Kaisharga

[Neo]

haha we have a cookie monster here.

*Neo open the cover of the rubbish bin and say hello.*

[curious]

scratch his head:o Most guys won't admit it , I guess they don't want you to think they like this kind of stuff, but trust me, they do. The next time you guys are just hanging out, watching tv, position yourself so that you can casually drape your arm around his shoulder then just absentmindedly run your hand over his head and scratch. Not like you shaking him down for dandruff, but like you would softly run your fingernails over a kitty or puppy's belly.
Master this skill and soon,he will let you do it as he lay his head on your lap (or even better-- between your open legs!!)
One other tip, walk up behind him while he's sitting. Softly graze one hand over his chest and give him one very soft kiss on the nape of his neck:kiss: Ooooooh. You will literally SEE his penis jump if you do it right. You don't beleive me, just try it. Let us know how it goes.

[LoveChild84]

Originally posted by curious
[Softly graze one hand over his chest and give him one very soft kiss on the nape of his neck:kiss: Ooooooh. You will literally SEE his penis jump if you do it right. You don't beleive me, just try it. Let us know how it goes. [/B]

I have had somethin very similar to this done to me... although my penis DIDNT jump, it felt really good. :) I cant vouch for that.
DEFINATELY TRY THIS 1!!!

[Angeleyes]

Have a nice candlelight dinner and then give him a massage. Doesn’t have to be a stripped naked job to start off!:D

Shoulders, back and chest are as good a place to start.;)

[angellove]

the best gift a woman can give to her sweetie is herself (and no, i'm not talkin 'bout herself in her victoria's secrets.) i mean, make him think that he has stolen the heart of this wonderful mysterious, sophisticated woman (you!), and give him the pleasure of conquering your heart! you don't have to do much, just be your beautiful, mesmerizing self! avoid being overpowering and obsessive with love notes and gifts (i'm guilty of writing those long, mushy love letters. no, no, no!). remember, some guys are intimidated by gifts (my baby practically freaks out when i mention them!) like i said, let him do the work, and be his sweetie. ;)

[Cheshire Puss]

Originally posted by Athena
My guy friend who is always doing sweet things for me. I want to do something special for him. Do you have any suggestions? (We are not a couple yet and havent been going out long, so nothing too forward)

I guess the first thing to ask is are you wanting to run this relationship another gear? You say you are good friend - is the assumption that you want to be more than good friends correct?

If you want to stay just good friends, just carry on as you are, you're both enjoying yourself - maybe get him tickets to see his favorite band or sports team, treat him to a meal, make him a sweater, buy him a book - something thoughtful but not romantic.

If you want to take it to the next level, all things mentioned so far are good, especially the suggestion to give of yourself. And if you're really such good friends, you should know the kind of non-touchy things he likes - favorite food, favorite places to hang out ... just play a riff off the things you know already. Show him you have thought about what he likes and what he wants. Put some thought into it.

Yeah, and stroke his hair too. Guys eat that stuff up.

CP

[jsbyrn]

Give him some valentine hearts on cupcakes and a DVD with all the PowerPuff Girls episodes. Guaranteed to work every time....

oh, you meant for _straight_ men? Wow. No idea, then, sorry.

[Byron]

haha :)

[kiaA]

Nothin forward about it. Just show up nakkid and bring beer, He will love that.;)

[Wesley]

U have to get close, whisper things into his ear, be spontaneous, do things he'd never expect you to do. Compliment him on something that you know he is very proud of, eg: if he works out, tell him he's really been looking ripped these days. U can't go wrong with things like that.

Wes

[Karbonopsinos]

How much time do the "ripped" guys spend in the gym? I hear it takes them hours and hours a day to get in that shape, but who has the time for that?

Btw, how does one get "ripped" but not in the steroid way....more like the gymnast/swimmer/skier way? It seems much more natural to the proportions of the body.

[AlexAnt]

Originally posted by Karbonopsinos
How much time do the "ripped" guys spend in the gym? I hear it takes them hours and hours a day to get in that shape, but who has the time for that?
I guess it's just a question of priorities. I certainly don't have time to "get ripped" either, but somehow I do have time to practice guitar 3 hours a day. And who else has time for that? :)
Btw, how does one get "ripped" but not in the steroid way....more like the gymnast/swimmer/skier way? It seems much more natural to the proportions of the body.
I'm not any of these, but I'd imagine they work out just like any athlete does. Not everyone who works out does it to get huge bulging muscles.

So back to the topic... I would say to make a guy melt completely, bones and all, would require temperatures of several thousand degrees fahrenheit. Be sure there is no oxygen present or combustion could take place. :)

Alex

[Daisy814]

Originally posted by AlexAnt
So back to the topic... I would say to make a guy melt completely, bones and all, would require temperatures of several thousand degrees fahrenheit. Be sure there is no oxygen present or combustion could take place. :)

Clever :)

This is a really good thread!!! I'm getting a lot of good ideas from you guys! Let me see if I can add some in...

Well, massages are always good...say he's had a hard, long day ~ its a good way to relieve stress.

Dedicate a "him night" Make all his favorite foods, rent his favorite movies, do all his favorite things (ie: play video games with him or something), play his favorite songs, don't talk about yourself at all ~ rather make time to listen to anything he has to say. Let him know that he means enough for you to set a special time just for him.

Leave him little notes where he'll see them like "I'm so lucky to know you etc..."

Remember real mail? You know, the kind on paper? Send him some ~ be creative.

I may have some more later...stay tuned.

[voland]

It amazes me that the women here insist on recommending cards, cookies, hugs, kisses, candy, flowers, poems, etc.... When all the guys are saying, SEX and BEER (the nude photos was a good idea too)!

Take a hint ladies, what's important to you is not important to men (I'm talking about real men here, of course).

Like it or not, men are base and crude. Learn it, live it, love it.

[AlexAnt]

Not ALL men are base and crude... some of us are only base. :)

[reign226]

Geez, this one really gets my blood boiling. Not ALL men are beer gushing drunkards who likes a menu of fresh orgasms every day. So women, fret not, there is a silver lining.

Personally, if I am close with a female (not the physical kind, mind you), I'd like to be cared for. Subtle things like backrubs and caring comments can really change any men.

[DigarD]

It depends. If you want to get laid, serving beer buck naked will do the trick. If, however, you want to get more intimate then the other stuff will work. If you want him to think of you all day long put a sexy picture of you with note on the back saying " I miss you. Hurry home." on his windshield. Don't be surprized if he get a speeding ticket on the way. :devil: