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6vx74x
10-19-2001, 05:35 AM
Day afer tomorrow is my leisure time , I will be done that advice what y'all gave me ( God bless me..^^)
:D :p
but i think that i am still fear of that she exactly give me lucid rejection then how do i avoid the embarrassed scene.
Can i just Say "Bye~Bye"!!I think not , maybe right , So please give me advice..
:cold: :frosty:
Kaisharga
10-19-2001, 04:44 PM
And why not?
"Hi, um, would you like to go out for dinner sometime?"
"No."
"Well. Okay then. Talk to you later." *walk off, go back to reading AcmeLove hehe*
There's no reason to feel unnecessary embarassment or offense. Why put something there that's not? A turn-down is just that--they've turned your offer down. Would you be offended or embarassed if you offered someone a piece of gum, but they said no, they don't like gum? Same deal here, except you're offering yourself. And I'll bet the gum doesn't feel offended either.
If you have to know why you were turned down, though, be prepared for the person to be blatantly honest, and to hear some possibly-objectional material. Some people are good like that.
--Kaisharga, who thinks he probably just confused everyone
Aprilsky
10-20-2001, 06:19 PM
I got what you said, and i understand it clearly!
*just thought you might like to know*
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