Human Diversity...

[Soullus]

Hello,

Just introducing myself.. so here's a little bit about me..


I am upstanding, selfless, and gentle. To all those girls out there who like nice guys, I'm the perfect man. To everyone else, I'm an amusing dweeb. Therefore, I'm single:(.

I often tell myself, Chris you might have problems now, but once you get older and girls have grown tired of jerks and gigolos, you'll be a hot ticket.Take solace in this fact, if you haven't already found your pink princess. Either way, you need to get more practice in the sack, or your special someone will leave you for the pizza-boy.

I'm a guy who's not afraid of commitment or self-sacrifice,
but I don't let people walk all over me. It's quite possible I'll lose
my heart to someone more selfish--she'll take and take and take, and one day I'll find all that's left is my skeleton and a few toenails. So Feel free to chat even if your just looking for a guy's insight...

[Kaisharga]

Well hello. Looks like I found another with problems similar to my own. ((ENTER MODE:ASSIST))

I am upstanding, selfless, and gentle. To all those girls out there who like nice guys, I'm the perfect man. To everyone else, I'm an amusing dweeb. Therefore, I'm single.

Yeah, dead ringer for me too. Except for the clipped-out frowny face thing. I didn't actually mind being single while I was; I relished in it. But enough talk of differences. Moving on.

I often tell myself, Chris you might have problems now, but once you get older and girls have grown tired of jerks and gigolos, you'll be a hot ticket.

Stop Telling yourself this, and believe it. You can ask the people around here--I find myself well-liked, and that suits me just fine. I'm not terribly physically attractive, but when people of the female persuasion chat with me IRL (that's In Real Life for the people who apparently still have a root there) often become jealous of my girlfriend. Not that I enjoy that, mind you, I'm just presenting this as a 'there is hope' thing.

Either way, you need to get more practice in the sack, or your special someone will leave you for the pizza-boy.

Oh my.

Let me tell you something about relationships. They're based on love, and sex is just icing on that big cake. Given, it's really really tasty icing, but it's not the cake. Even if you're really crappy in bed, the person who really loves you will stand by you nonetheless. In fact, they'll hopefully make it even more fun by working with any ineptitudes you may have, even helping you to become a better lover. Moving right along.

I'm a guy who's not afraid of commitment or self-sacrifice,
but I don't let people walk all over me. It's quite possible I'll lose
my heart to someone more selfish--she'll take and take and take, and one day I'll find all that's left is my skeleton and a few toenails.

I describe myself this way, except in the form of 'too generous for my own damn good.' I give and give and give, and never expect nor want anything in return...ever. This means that my gf gets to abuse me in just about any manner she chooses, whenever she chooses, and I keep coming back, ready for when things get better. This is not where you want to be. But I know, from having a similar personality, that nobody can bring you out of that once you're set in your dedication to that person, no matter who tells you otherwise.

It's amazing that I can find someone else out there with the kind of extreme altruism that I have, until now, only known myself to posess. Don't let it be your downfall. And again, someone who will berate and abuse you doesn't deserve to be pampered, or even tolerated, in the extreme fashion that I know you would.

If you have ANY concerns at all, PLEASE don't hesitate to PrivateMessage me with the little button at the bottom-left of my post that says 'PM.' I have a feeling we can learn a lot from eachother. Or even just get these things off our mutual chests. And sometimes, that's all that you really need, is a good talk about it.

--Kaisharga

[Neo]

Hello Soullus! Welcome to this cyber hangout where you will get to meet other interesting people from all over the world.

[Angeleyes]

Hi Sollus - Welcome to ACME:wavey:

I was deeply saddened by your initial intro.

Having "good looks" isn't everything Chris, it can actually be as bigger hindrance, as you put it - looking like a dweeb.

You seem like a very beautiful person to me and have a lot of very good qualities to offer to a girl. I am sure your pink princess will eventually come your way - they say there is someone out there for each and every one of us. Lets just imagine for the interim that she making her way to you in a beautiful golden coach - but somehow it's run into a bit of difficulty. :)

Angeleyes:angel:

[Kaisharga]

Yeah, the horses had to get an oil change. :lol:

--Kaisharga :wavey: + :drinky: = :nod: + :flippy:

[Angeleyes]

That does it………….. (this is Angeleyes throwing a tantrum - you can be very very annoying at times - has your gf ever told you that hehehe :redhot:

*angeleyes hits Kai with a pillow (sorry only thing I could think of) erm......... in the face!* :p

There was me getting all emotional and doing my “girlie” thing and you go and spoil it!

Sollus take no notice of Kai....he finds it very amusing.......... in totally annoying me......just to drive me crazy hehehe! ).:flippy:

PS Actually Kai – I was going to put “stuck in a traffic jam” – but I didn’t think it sounded very romantic.;) :lol: