What should I think?!

[Dreamer18]

Hello everyone i really need some advice ... prferably from a guy but any would help. This guy that I met about a week ago and I have been seeing each other for about a week now. Imean like going on dates and kissing. Well he told one of my friends that he is going out with me... and everyone kept refering to me as his girl. Well he told another friend of mine that same night that we were just going with the flow. So are we going out or what? I am sooo confused!! Please help!!:confused: :heart: :daisy:

[Dreamer18]

sorry something to add... before all this telling my friends stuff we both half heartedly agreed that we would take it slow... so now i am really confused i want it to be more and so does he but i really would like to know!

[Kaisharga]

What I wanna know is, What difference does it make? If you're 'going out' and he asks you on a date, you go and have fun. If you're 'taking it slow' and he asks you on a date, you go and have fun. You're 'going out' and it's exam week and you don't go anyplace for a week or two. You're 'taking it slow' and you still stay home those weeks.

A rose is a rose, no matter what name you slap on its name tag.

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[Pandora1980]

The last guy I dated did the same thing- I asked him about it later- maybe I'm dense for not figuring it out though.

He told the bouncer at a bar/restaurant we went to that I was his girlfriend- I was 20, he was 25 and a regular there- therefore the bouncer didn't card me (probably figuring I was about the same age or at least 21). He told other people we were talking or seeing eachother or whatever, but it depended on who he was talking to what he said.

I asked him about it and we decided we were going out- so that was the end of that confusion.