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[6vx74x]

I knew a girl recently and She drove me in crazy , But for a reason , i thought that likely don't have a chance to meet her again.So i pick up my courage to sent her bunch of flower and note what i feeling for her . But she didn't answer that letter.Could someone give me some advice which i do below .

1 . Go meet her face to face and tell her what i feeling again .
2 . Just forget her . (but it's not easy.)

[Byron]

Hi 6vx74x,

Firstly, I would like to welcome you to this helpful site. You will enjoy your stay here.

Normally I will not advise people to go into a relationship like a sweeping tornado, you risk frightening the other person. I believe it's important to build a relationship based on trust and friendship.

Though, there are cases of love at first sight where you are able to sweep the other person off their feet, but such sweet endings do not come often. Easy come, easy go.

Don't be too bothered that she didn't answer your letter. Have you heard of the delayed reaction effect? Put yourself in her shoes. Does she knows you? What will you do when a stranger appears and send you a bunch of flowers and a love note? Do you go ahead and say you love the other person? I guess not. She is probably shock but flattered. But don't expect her to come to you. You need to prove your love to her.

Since you took the courage to sent her a bunch of flower and a note on your feelings for her, I suggest you go and meet her face to face and tell her your feelings. Court her. Let her know why you reacted this way. Let her know that if you don't tell her you love her, you will regret it for the rest of your life.

It's up to you to prove or explain to her why you love her so much, even though you just know her recently. Assure her that your love is genuine and prove it to her in actions, not just flowers.

Good luck to you. Give it a try. Just know that even if she reject you, you will not regret.


Respectfully,
Byron

[xiaomoon]

maybe she needs to know more about you before deciding anything. (since you said that you only have knew her recently) So you can just ask her when she's free so that you can have lunch together with her....( REMEMBER to get her PHONE NUMBER!);) Well, best is to get her email and home address too.. :p

*StArT being friens first*

[Kaisharga]

I think I can sum up my response in just a few lines (all the veterans, gasp in horror! Kai's not writing a long rant!!).

If you don't want to never be able to see her again, then see her again.

Allow me to expand on that. (veterans: "NOOOOOO!")

If you don't want her to be gone for the rest of your life, find out where she is--what school she goes to, what area (general area) she lives in, what she does in her free time, where she works--all that stuff, so that you can 'drop in' some day that you have free and hopefully meet her. In addition, get in contact with her. Become a friend to her. This way, you two can exchange phone #s and keep in touch, and spend some time together. This will help you advance on to becoming closer to her than a friend, if you and her want to go in that direction.

...I think that's all I have for now. Oh yeah, <insert rant re:'Happiness is being married to your best friend' here>

--Kaisharga

[6vx74x]

Thinks you all for giving advice , Allow me to expand on my circumstance , i ensure she know me too . We chat to each other about something in a few words .

So i thought she didn't answer the letter becouse of she want me to forget her and if i meet her again , i dread to bother her . but if i couldn't meet her again . i exactly feel that regret for this . i too am confused .

:confused: Should i really go meet her , i dont let her feel i enforce my will to her just .

[Kaisharga]

YES.

[Neo]

Listen to your heart. If I tell you forget about her, can you do it?

No, I won't tell you to do that.

Go for her! Go and win her heart!

Keep in mind of Kaisharga's advice too. Keep in contact with her. Even if you don't win her heart now, you can take your time and win her heart later.

[abs23]

Follow your heart! Fight the fight for true love. Don't give up and don't be shy--why be shy when you know yourself and love yourself and that is the first step to knowing and loving another. Just find her and tell her how you feel and if she feels the same way then go for it, but if she doesn't then say thank you and walk away proud that you did all you could do. Maybe she is scared or nervous or dating someone else. You don't know how she feels until you ask her, or tell her how you feel. Be a risk taker. Be strong and follow your heart, but don't overwhelm her, you don't want to come across too strong. Just be yourself, be subtle, be patient, and hopefully she will respond the way you want her to. If not, then don't get down, because you have the power in your hand to find the woman of your dreams, all you have to do is use it.