Affair Required

[sydney guy]

Hi there,
I am a male 36, medium build , who is looking for some one to have an affair with as my sex life has some what dryed up..
My work allows me to travel around the sydney metro area during the day, so we could meet for coffee and a chat first.
Thanks for reading this ( chat soon I hope ). :)

[Kaisharga]

Just a quick note, I am of the opinion that if your current sex life with your spouse isn't satisfactory, then take it into your own hands and do something new, exciting, and fun with it. Think of what you would do to/with this other person. Now go and do that with your wife. Sweep her off her feet and carry her off for a day-long nothing-we've-ever-tried-before session at a hotel or whatever. It's not worth breaking up your marriage for a day's worth of 'fun.' So instead of having fun with someone else, have fun with the person you love. Trying new and different things can add a lot of spice to a sex life, and quickly.

My two cents.

--Kaisharga

[babymother]

If your sex life has dried up it is up to you to make it wet again.to go out and cheat on your wife or who ever she may be because not only will think your sex life dried up.if you go out and cheat your house will dry up and so will your wallet. because somthing so small as tellig your wife that you think your sex life needs a little pick me up is not that hard. :mad:

[xiaomoon]

:dodgy: You should take the initiative to make you and your wife's sex life more exciting... besides sex is not the major thing that you need between you and your spouse. Try something else too, like talking with her heart to heart.. do things together with her! You must have some reson y you want her as your wife in the first place.. (think abt it)
Yar you should talk to your wife on how to improve your sex life with her(your wife). Never try another alternative way to get your sex life going.....

[LeBlueBoy]

Almost every Austrailian male I've met has a completely different take on marriage than we do in the States.

I knew a transplanted Aussie who lived in Vegas. The story, as he told it, was that one day he was married, and the next day he moved out of his flat and hopped a plane to the States. He lived in the States a few years, and then got married in Vegas. A month later he was packing his bags and hopping a plane for somewhere else (no kids involved, by the way).

I also knew an Eastern European whose parents made it a point not to remain together in the same country for more than three months at a time. The mother would come to the States to get a break from her husband, her husband would work a few months in the old country, buy a plane ticket, and come to America, rent an apartment, get a job here, and live with his wife. After a few months his wife would find an excuse to go back, so the husband would work in the states a few months, buy another plane ticket, and go home. This seemed to be a pretty routine way of dealing with marital problems since marital therapy (or any sort of councilling) was not a widely accepted way of dealing with problems in that culture (at least for the older folks).

I just hope Sydney Guy realizes that this sort of extramaritial activity can work both ways--that his wife might actually be soliciting some action outside the marriage as well...

[Kaisharga]

WTF. That sounds like 'we got married because our parents said so and we're too afraid of the consequences to get a divorce/annullment/handparting/whatever.'

--Kaisharga

[babymother]

So Kaisharga now do you see what i ment by my thread.

[Kaisharga]

Well yeah. I've never thought cheating was a good idea, and that relationships should be set up so that it isn't something that a person would ever want to do. HOWEVER, if they do end up on this board, saying "I wanna cheat!," then we should tell them all this stuff that we're saying right now--don't do it, don't put yourself in a situation where you want to, it only makes things worse, et cetera, et cetera. This way we can hope to possibly convert a few of 'em ;)

--Kaisharga