How to make my boyfriend enjoy our relationship..

[MikesGurl]

How can i make my boyfriend enjoy our relationship alot more. I want more intamacy in my life, how can i hint to him i want more than just making out all the time. Please help me!

[Kaisharga]

How about you make the first move?
Don't go too far, but just brush your hand on various parts of his body when you're making out, like against his leg, under his shirt, et cetera. Like Lesser-Groping. He's sure to get the hint ;) And you can just work your way up from there. Better yet, ask him if he would be willing to 'take it a little further tonight.' Ask if he'd like to get to second base or whatever (i never knew the bases particularly well, not in with that slang).

--Kaisharga

[Pandora1980]

You want to do more than just make out all the time? Does that mean you want to talk and stuff or that you want to show him your O face?
I don't now how old you and I don't know how long you've been seeing eachother so I don't know if this is a little to fast or not...

You want naked time and he's not responding!?!?! are you sure he's a (straight) guy?

If that's what you meant by more than just make out- get some whipped cream- play whipped cream games- you can start out fully clothed if he's shy.
Or when you're making out- move it to the bedroom- take off your own shirt- he doesn't have to do it for you- you can start by taking his off if that makes you feel better. See how he responds- if you want more- continue removing clothing and be the agressive one- once he knows you want whetever it is you want- he may be more receptive to initiating.
Or you could talk to him- ask him why he hasn't gone for more than kissing- tell him what you want (yes I do know that it's hard- but I've never HAD to be the initiator)

If you mean more talking- do the standard things- go out to dinner, make him dinner if funds are tight or if you want to go all out, go for a picnic, go for a walk, go to the movies (and then somewhere to talk about it), go out for coffee, talk on the phone, e-mail, go out for drinks (not all that bad of an idea- honesty happens here- at least when I've been drinking - I tell all)

Anyway- long story- short- talk about it or take initiative- the person who can get you what you want more often than not is YOU. Don't be afraid to go after what you want!!!

Women- you don't have to wait for men to do everything for you!

[beltfed]

I have an idea. hot butter! what else? um, hot butter... and mabey some hot butter.

no, seriously. If you want more intamacy just tell him. I dont think any man in his right mind would refuse an offer like that! at least, I hope not. So anyway, you get a stick of hot bu- oh, nevermind.