Phone problem...

[Joshua]

I used to talk a lot when any girl called me for hours but now i seem to lost that instinct? its like i will say hi, eaten ur meal? what did u do today? then end of conversation, i will just keep quiet. any ideas on what to talk about like a real hot guy where girls will enjoy because most girls really keep their mouth shut. sorry if i sounded stupid. :(

[abs23]

Dear Josh,

Talking on the phone is just another form of communication, like talking in person. Don't feel like you have to talk for hours on end, but try to strike up a conversation and keep the flow. When you ask how her day is, try to get her to answer with something more than "okay, fine, good, etc." Try to ask her specifics about her day. For instance, " How was your day?' "What made it so good/or bad?" "What all did you get done today?" "Did you have a busy day?" Also try talking about your day and give her a chance to ask you questions. Talk about upcoming plans you might make with her. Try asking or talking about people you both know. Anything funny happen in your day, share it with her. Anything bad happen, share it with her. Just be open, honest, and confident. You don't always have to initiate the conversation, just try to ask open ended questions. Enjoy her company on the phone. Have fun and relax, let the moment carry you!! Good luck---you'll do great!

abs

[Joshua]

thank you! i will try and see how it goes. :)