ex girlfriend

[notsure21]

i have a new problem the girl i loved my whole life and couldnt get out of my head has come back after 8 years she has a 4 month old son and calls every day at home and at work im not sure what she wants but we have been talking more now than we did when we were together i think im still in love with her but i have a girl and another one who works across the hall but this is the one you know what they say if you love someone set them free if they come back theyre yours if they dont you were never meant to be......... could this actually have come true for me???????? :eek:

[Cereal Killer]

Why does she come back to you after 8 years?

Can you accept the child?

Where is the father of her 4 month old son?

Sorry for this. Could she be looking for someone to take care of her and her baby, and this leads her to you?

You mentioned about two other gals. Do you know which of them you really want?

[Kaisharga]

My diagnosis is similar. IF you can love her AND the child, then you are probably okay. But that's an awful big hurdle to overcome. Not impossible, but very difficult. And you have to be able to love BOTH knowing that she's been with another man, probably for a few years. AND you already have designs on two other females? Are you willing to break it up completely and suddenly with these two just for her? And her child?

If, even after all these words of discouragement, you still say 'yes,' and really mean it,

then go for it.

--Kaisharga

[notsure21]

I WOULD LIKE TO THANK EVERYONE FOR THE ADVICE. I HAVE TO GIVE IT A SHOT I STILL LOVE HER AND PROBABLY ALWAYS WILL!!!!!! I WILL HOWEVER ASK FOR YOUR ADVICE AND SUPPORT AGAIN IN THE NEAR FUTURE

[notsure21]

sorry about the caps

[Kaisharga]

Meh. It happens.
*points to the Edit button at the bottom of every post*

--Kaisharga, lord of Fruits and Veggies