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[ifreaknasty41]

i need some help about a very touchy subject that alot of people dont find right. i am dating a guy who is nine years yoounger then me but i think i am finally in love and everyone says that i am wrong because he is just a kid and he acts so much more mature then alot of guys i know that are my age .......also i am having his child .......please help should i end it now or go on:bawling:

[Kaisharga]

Well, the nine years thing doesn't matter as much depending on both of your ages; i.e. it's a bigger deal if he's 13 and you're 22 than if he's 35 and you're 44.

But in any case, I'd say stay with him. Your love for him is more important than your friends' approval of him; You're the one that has to love him, not them.

And, since you have a kid, stay together for your child's sake. Don't mess this kid's life up with a divorce-type situation. Let the kid have a mom AND a dad.

Unless, of course, your man is 15 :o

In that case, I have no freaking clue what to do :-P

--Kaisharga

[Dreamer18]

If your happy and it isn't illegal then i say go for it! But my ex-boyfriend and I were 2 years apart but i was 17 and he was 15. It worked for awhile but when i graduated it all changed. we were together for 1 year and we called it off. We both loved each other deeply, but i say if yall are both happy then i see no reason to fix something that isn't broken!